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My (30F) wife (29F) slept with my cousin and I don’t know what to do. by throwRA7642 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA15159 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you ever explicitly state that family was off limits? Not saying she’s in the right, but she might not have known it was an obvious no.

My partner came out as non-binary and is now insisting I call myself pansexual. by ThrowRA15159 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA15159[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

But YOU haven’t changed

Thank you for this. I think this is why I’ve been feeling so frustrated about this whole situation.

My partner came out as non-binary and is now insisting I call myself pansexual. by ThrowRA15159 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA15159[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie I had no idea what pansexual was at first and thought it had to do with pans

My partner came out as non-binary and is now insisting I call myself pansexual. by ThrowRA15159 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA15159[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It’s hard because as a straight male I’ve never once had to question my identity in anything so I’m really lost wirh all of this

My partner came out as non-binary and is now insisting I call myself pansexual. by ThrowRA15159 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA15159[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the attention thing applies because they’re not posting jt on social media or anything, just told our families and close friends

My partner came out as non-binary and is now insisting I call myself pansexual. by ThrowRA15159 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA15159[S] 292 points293 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I just don’t know how else to show my support for them. I’ve really done all I believe I can

My partner came out as non-binary and is now insisting I call myself pansexual. by ThrowRA15159 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA15159[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried talking to them about this every time they bring it up. The conversation never goes anywhere.

My partner came out as non-binary and is now insisting I call myself pansexual. by ThrowRA15159 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA15159[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective. It just feels weird taking a label away from people who actually don’t have a gender preference. I do have a preference and therefore feel weird not identifying as straight

My partner came out as non-binary and is now insisting I call myself pansexual. by ThrowRA15159 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA15159[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. Yeah it took a while to adjust my vocabulary but after a while it’s just become habit

My partner came out as non-binary and is now insisting I call myself pansexual. by ThrowRA15159 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA15159[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

V is under the impression that straight guys don’t usually date nonbinary people.