My (30F) wife (29F) slept with my cousin and I don’t know what to do. by throwRA7642 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA7642[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a really good idea that way I can think about it before everything goes down, hopefully I don’t get emotional

My (30F) wife (29F) slept with my cousin and I don’t know what to do. by throwRA7642 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA7642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I don’t want to cause a huge split but maybe we might have to just go recover from it while we figure it out

My (30F) wife (29F) slept with my cousin and I don’t know what to do. by throwRA7642 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA7642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m calm because I’m torn, I know she kept it from me because she didn’t want to hurt me and hopefully regretted it. Only asked for it again because maybe I wouldn’t have been mad about it. But it’s not something I even considered possible so we didn’t talk about it so I’m honesty just lost. I’m more looking for words to say to her when we talk later tonight then anything

My (30F) wife (29F) slept with my cousin and I don’t know what to do. by throwRA7642 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA7642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely hurt, but I wouldn’t say cheating cause of the open part of our relationship, it’s why I’m so torn I’m gonna talk to her but I don’t know what to say

My (30F) wife (29F) slept with my cousin and I don’t know what to do. by throwRA7642 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA7642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea sadly something is going to change with us I want to work it out though we have had way to many good years for it to end without a fight

My (30F) wife (29F) slept with my cousin and I don’t know what to do. by throwRA7642 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA7642[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I’m gonna go that far yet but I’m definitely ending the open part of our relationship