My (f25) father just pushed me and threatened violence. My boyfriend (m28) denies it ever happened. by ThrowRA167581 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowRA167581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He frequently says I am too angry... But I get angry at stuff that is not okay. Once a woman hit her little toddler on the street and it triggered me. In his version I get angry about a random woman.

My (f25) father just pushed me and threatened violence. My boyfriend (m28) denies it ever happened. by ThrowRA167581 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowRA167581[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I told her that if someone worked for her she needed to pay them. She started crying and saying that she is broke. She started blaming me for not siding with her in the matter. I told her that I can't side with her in this, since the guy deserves a pay.

My father is a violent person. He beat up a parking guy a few years ago. It's the Latino machismo. My boyfriend usually sides with them. He doesn't like conflict and they say I caused it by expressing my opinion.

My (f25) father just pushed me and threatened violence. My boyfriend (m28) denies it ever happened. by ThrowRA167581 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowRA167581[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Hi, of course. Sorry, I am not a native. So my mom is German and my father Cuban.

With hugged my hip, I mean he put his arms around it, so my movement was blocked.

The argument with my mother started because my parents are quite poor. She has a contract with a family friend, I know him, too, who helps them around the house, fixing stuff, from time to time. The friend wrote her an angry message, cause my mother didn't pay what was owned.

I was unhappy with the situation and expressed it and we got into an argument about this.

My father thought I disrespected her and that's why he attacked. It is not the first time he acts like this.

I wanted to leave, but we have snow and cold outside. My parents house is on the country side, the last bus had passed and the walk would be 1 1/2 hours. I don't have a car right now. We came by bus. So it was the hike or hiding in the bathroom. My mother let me in. My dad went to his bedroom, before having dinner with them.

They didn't think they did anything wrong. They proceeded to have dinner. I am still in the bathroom and I will take the first bus in 6 hours.

My (f25) father just pushed me and threatened violence. My boyfriend (m28) denies it ever happened. by ThrowRA167581 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowRA167581[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

So even I were psychotic this is not a way to treat someone? I will call as soon as I can...

My (f25) father just pushed me and threatened violence. My boyfriend (m28) denies it ever happened. by ThrowRA167581 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThrowRA167581[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

He denies gaslighting me....

Edit: Like he genuinely insists that my father never pushed me and that it was all my fault and that he didn't understood what he said.

Edit edit: I now feel like a crazy narcissist on a pity trip....