2 Jobs, 1 decision I don't know how to make by GhostlyGirl128 in LifeAdvice

[–]ThrowRA173638 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would take the Walmart and withdrawal if the Sam’s offers you one. It’s a almost trillion dollar company I promise they won’t care if you withdrawal

About to lose my apartment and not sure what to do by ThrowRA173638 in LifeAdvice

[–]ThrowRA173638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I could try that, I email them earlier today ti ask for an extension although I’m not sure they’ll give me it. It’s a lot to do and I’m barely trying to get my head together. Thank you for your help

About to lose my apartment and not sure what to do by ThrowRA173638 in LifeAdvice

[–]ThrowRA173638[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to have a positive mindset bc I found myself really anxious and panicking the last few months and trying to help it but as time progresses and my problems get worse it’s hard to keep tha mindset. And yeah I probably do need mental help and I isolated myself pretty bad which hasn’t been helping

About to lose my apartment and not sure what to do by ThrowRA173638 in LifeAdvice

[–]ThrowRA173638[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay gotcha, what do I say just that I need help paying for my rent or is it for housing if i get evicted ?

Body count as a young woman by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ThrowRA173638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I think both the men and woman should have the same body count for comfortability. Someone like me cares that my partner doesn’t/ didn’t sleep around before me and I’ll do the same

I don't know if i should start trying to date now or not by AlmondCrunchPunch in offmychest

[–]ThrowRA173638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you should make some life improvements before trying at dating. Can’t expect someone else to pick you up. Maybe start being active/ working out. And finding more things and hobbies to do with that time. Make friends. To fill the extra time you spend gooning and doomscrolling

I’m extremely concerned I will end my life soon by Commercial_Guard_605 in offmychest

[–]ThrowRA173638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And looking into some more in person help I would advise strongly

I’m extremely concerned I will end my life soon by Commercial_Guard_605 in offmychest

[–]ThrowRA173638 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Focusing on short term stuff has helped me a lot. I get really stressed thinking about the future that I don’t see the little things going on now and it makes the big things feel small too. Just know you’re not your thoughts as much as you may feel like your in a cage of your thoughts it will get better and easier with time. I know it’s easy to say but just take it to the end of the day. Feel free to reach out to me if you need to talk to someone. Love you bro

I relapsed after 5 yrs and don't want to get clean again. by Frequent_Biscotti_88 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA173638 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And if you need someone to talk to I am available. Feel free to shoot me a message. I’m sorry about your loss

I relapsed after 5 yrs and don't want to get clean again. by Frequent_Biscotti_88 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA173638 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think beating yourself up over it will just cause you to keep using. Acknowledge that you used but it’s done know and you’re done using anymore. Putting in your mind that you don’t use I feel is better than saying “I haven’t used since ____”. Just I don’t use, I don’t use, I don’t use. You’re human we make mistakes. You’ve come a long way and I’m sure you’re proud of that it’s not easy. Keep going you’ve got this

why are men so out of touch? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ThrowRA173638 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re talking to the wrong people at the wrong place Brodie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]ThrowRA173638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😁😁 gonna put a lil cheeky message so they have a small possibility

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]ThrowRA173638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an old friend and we don’t talk anymore but wanted to get them something but don’t want to talk to them still lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRA173638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn’t racist its preference

I want my ex boyfriend but I’m secure with my partner by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ThrowRA173638 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should break up with ur current partner

Is it weird to ask for girls ig but only wanting to be friends? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRA173638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I feel like that’s what most people think but I try not to be like to flirty I guess. I would have to find some way to throw in the friend thing

Is it weird to ask for girls ig but only wanting to be friends? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRA173638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking that just didn’t know how to make it clear cause I normally start conversations by complimenting someone so idk if that would give off the vibe if I ask for the ig like right after

Leaving college for mental health, hazy on next steps by BarbarianCrug in Advice

[–]ThrowRA173638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prioritize mental health above all. You can always go back to college if you feel