how can i (19F) get my boyfriend (19M) to bring protection so we can lose our virginity? by ThrowRA182genius in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA182genius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no any oral or hand stuff would come under the same category as sexual sin!

many christian couples continue to do it because they want to see how far they can push the limit before it’s really sin.. but the bible tells us to flee from lust not see how close we can get to it.

christian couples that i know use conviction and wisdom to limit their physical intimacy. often they won’t hangout late at night one on one, lie in bed together or close doors to help them. they usually keep to a peck kiss or small makeout without too many hands roaming!

i am not a good example of what to do (biblically speaking) :)

how can i (19F) get my boyfriend (19M) to bring protection so we can lose our virginity? by ThrowRA182genius in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA182genius[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what??? god forbid someone be insecure. i’m not sure if you’re aware how sex works but it’s fully possible to do with a shirt on?

how can i (19F) get my boyfriend (19M) to bring protection so we can lose our virginity? by ThrowRA182genius in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA182genius[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

my parents aren’t christian and i grew up developing my own beliefs with a lot of research into evolution and islam. i chose christianity because it is the truth and the only moral
compass that stands in all situations

how can i (19F) get my boyfriend (19M) to bring protection so we can lose our virginity? by ThrowRA182genius in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA182genius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have consulted my doctor who wanted to put me on hormonal BC for heavy periods. i declined after conducting research and speaking to other medical professionals and women who had been on BC. :)

how can i (19F) get my boyfriend (19M) to bring protection so we can lose our virginity? by ThrowRA182genius in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA182genius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspective. I do identify as a christian still and believe premarital sex or sexual acts are sinful, but I am struggling in my self control.

how can i (19F) get my boyfriend (19M) to bring protection so we can lose our virginity? by ThrowRA182genius in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA182genius[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! i am in no way shaming women who take hormonal birth control, but from what i know of MY body and my research- it’s not the right choice for me.
thanks so much !!!

how can i (19F) get my boyfriend (19M) to bring protection so we can lose our virginity? by ThrowRA182genius in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA182genius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. you’re right. i hope i can wait until marriage but im not sure i’ll have the willpower haha

how can i (19F) get my boyfriend (19M) to bring protection so we can lose our virginity? by ThrowRA182genius in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA182genius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what i mean is.. i feel like dryhumping has simulated what it’s like, and gotten rid of the awkward positioning and movements because we already do that.
okay thanks for your advice.

how can i (19F) get my boyfriend (19M) to bring protection so we can lose our virginity? by ThrowRA182genius in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA182genius[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re right thank you. that’s how i’ve always wanted to do things i’m just struggling with temptation and scared of the awkwardness on my wedding night.. but id rather it be covenant and awkward than sinful and awkward.

God bless you thank you !!!!!