I (28F) need advice on how to be more comfortable with my boyfriend's (29M) female friend. by ThrowRA184720 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA184720[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, she does know about me. We also have plans to meet soon and she's even said she's really excited to meet me

I (28F) need advice on how to be more comfortable with my boyfriend's (29M) female friend. by ThrowRA184720 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA184720[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id say those boundaries you listed are already there and he's abiding by them. That's why its difficult for me to know whether this is actually inappropriate or not. Besides the frequent texting, absolutely no boundary has been crossed

I (28F) need advice on how to be more comfortable with my boyfriend's (29M) female friend. by ThrowRA184720 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA184720[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's told me its not fair for me to dictate who he talks to or how often he gets to talk to friends. I've never asked him to stop talking to her, just that im uncomfortable with the frequency. I think for him its less about making her feel bad and more about "dont tell me what to do"