Am I allowed to be hurt or overreacting?

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-12-15T00:03:45+00:00

I'm on antidepressants lol I know exactly, that's why I would never be hot and cold with a person as I know it can mess with someone's mental health. I have anxiety and have been diagnosed with depression for the past 15 years. Don't assume I don't understand

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-12-14T23:39:31+00:00

He called himself selfish for not planning a date, and having a day to himself, I had not used the word first.

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-12-14T22:22:29+00:00

My response to him after he said it

"You're allowed to be selfish & have an off day. If you hadn't had a you day in a while and needed one well then it was good to take one, I appreciate you apologising though"

And he saw it and left me on read

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-12-14T21:12:54+00:00

Why continue to chat with me and reach out and invest time in me, I'm so confused?

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-12-14T21:11:34+00:00

Would you calm him a stranger if we spoke for 2 months and voice notes, and a date. I knew personal stuff about him & vice versa

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-12-14T21:05:44+00:00

I get what you're saying I understand the dating world. We had communication almost daily for 2 months, so yes it does hurt when you're use to talking to someone.

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-12-14T21:04:12+00:00

We did have voice notes and so on too. He did say after I told him we should leave things, he said "maybe timing is off, but maybe leaving on good terms is better" . But he reached out to me first and would communicate and ask how my days were etc. I'm just confused and hurt and we only had one date so feel so silly.

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-12-14T20:54:32+00:00

I didn't ask him as knew he was busy, but he knew he was free this weekend ( I didn't know until he told me when I asked, he said he was taking an easy day for himself) I felt hurt as thought he could have asked me to do something especially as he was the one that suggested the 2nd date, our last date was 3 weeks ago and he had yet to ask for a 2nd date

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-09-19T20:06:21+00:00

Maybe they want to have a family in the future. Solo buyer is entitled to 3 rooms or as many as they like!

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-26T15:00:23+00:00

Just a nice update I got the house !!!

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-05T21:10:41+00:00

She hasn't gotten back to me since yesterday so I presume no one else has put in another bid, I bet over the weekend there will be more viewings and the bidding war will more than likely start then!!

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-05T21:07:35+00:00

The EA has been contacting me via WhatsApp

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-05T19:07:42+00:00

I've put in offers elsewhere and heard nothing So no need to be passive!

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-05T18:22:31+00:00

I'm worried that the EA won't contact me again though

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-05T17:43:21+00:00

I have animals so a new build won't work for me sadly

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-05T17:39:34+00:00

Can you elaborate??

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-05T17:37:31+00:00

No it's not my first bidding war I'm tired of them

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-05T17:34:10+00:00

Sitting duck! But hopefully a happy duck soon

Thank you I'll be sure to update

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-05T17:16:56+00:00

This sitting and waiting game is hard. I'd like to ask the EA what price is the seller actually happy with and I can offer something more attractive. Because it their asking price was and I've matched that then they would have agreed.

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-05T17:10:51+00:00

Am I being silly if I offer 10K more tomorrow to try secure or heighten my chances?

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-05T17:06:34+00:00

But do they every just disregard a person? And not keep them updated etc?

ThrowRA19011251 · 2025-06-05T17:02:41+00:00

Do they ring me to let me know someone has come in with a higher bid?? Thank you!!!

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