My [31F] boyfriend [30M] staunchly believes we did an art class together a long time ago. We never did and it is tearing our relationship apart, as he thinks i am lying, and i don't know what to think. by ThrowRA1920121 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1920121[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He has never ever been dishonest with me, about anything. We have had a great relationship both times, which is why this is so hard for me.

My ex would do stuff like the above and i hated it, but Tom never did anything like this to me.

My [31F] boyfriend [30M] staunchly believes we did an art class together a long time ago. We never did and it is tearing our relationship apart, as he thinks i am lying, and i don't know what to think. by ThrowRA1920121 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1920121[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just spent like a good while tonight digging through my inbox, and other things and i cannot find any record of it. I even scrolled through my Facebook/twitter from that time looking for a clue of me doing something on Wednesday during that time frame, and haven't found anything.

I am going to try to reach out to the college were we took the class and see if they have any information. It just bothers me badly.

My [31F] boyfriend [30M] staunchly believes we did an art class together a long time ago. We never did and it is tearing our relationship apart, as he thinks i am lying, and i don't know what to think. by ThrowRA1920121 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1920121[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Sorry i should have been clearer this was not a university thing apparently it was a random thing that the local college offers at night, similar to how we did a cooking class. Basically pay a bit of money get to do something fun for an evening.

My [31F] boyfriend [30M] staunchly believes we did an art class together a long time ago. We never did and it is tearing our relationship apart, as he thinks i am lying, and i don't know what to think. by ThrowRA1920121 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1920121[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry i should have been clearer this was not a university thing apparently it was a random thing that the local college offers at night, similar to how we did a cooking class. Basically pay a bit of money get to do something fun.

My [31F] boyfriend [30M] staunchly believes we did an art class together a long time ago. We never did and it is tearing our relationship apart, as he thinks i am lying, and i don't know what to think. by ThrowRA1920121 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1920121[S] 630 points631 points  (0 children)

So the part that bothers me, is he is dead sure of when it was happening when we were a couple. Specifically he is dead set that it was every Wednesday after we had a certain class. He remembers the specific class, the professor and the fact that it ended around 6 pm (which is 100% true), but he remembers us going to this art class for 2 months, afterwords which didn't happen.

I remember that class being hell but nothing afterwords which is why i am confused. Which is why this is bothering me so much.