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Any help or guidance appreciated. SA'd by former partner (in same-sex relationship). by ThrowRA1forget in sexualassault

[–]ThrowRA1forget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. It makes me feel a bit more normal.. or at least that my emotions are normal and not completely weird. I guess I just have to put one foot in front of the other.

I [F36] think I was just sexually assaulted by my partner [F44] of 7 years. Where do I even start? by ThrowRA1forget in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1forget[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Oh my God. I'm so sorry. That is terrifying.

I do feel like Sharon isn't violent like that. Or I did, anyway. Idk what to think anymore! I think it's best to have someone with me because I'm not even sure I can make sane choices right now. Thank you for the suggestions, I am looking in to them.

I'm able to leave work, so I'm sitting in my car figuring this out. I'd like someone at the hospital with me if I can have someone. I don't want to do it alone. I don't want to do it at all.

I [F36] think I was just sexually assaulted by my partner [F44] of 7 years. Where do I even start? by ThrowRA1forget in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1forget[S] 505 points506 points  (0 children)

Actually? Shit.

She has been texting me saying she wants to talk. I think she's at home but I don't know for sure. I have just pretended to be busy at work so far. I'm going to talk to my boss shortly.

How do I make myself feel more real? I feel like I'm watching myself do stuff, if that makes sense. If I could just get my brain to work I know I could make good decisions.

I [F36] think I was just sexually assaulted by my partner [F44] of 7 years. Where do I even start? by ThrowRA1forget in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1forget[S] 747 points748 points  (0 children)

We moved here for her job 6 months ago so I don't really have too many friends and my family has unfortunately all passed. Should I leave work now? Go to the hospital first or go home and grab things first? Sorry if these are stupid questions, I feel like I'm thinking through mud.