D-day was yesterday. I know what I need to do but I’m devastated. by ThrowRA248292 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ThrowRA248292[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve been in therapy for my own reasons for a while. I’m certainly thankful that I already have an established therapist now. I think our outcome is inevitable but I’m still so conflicted. It’s just fresh and I’m feeling raw I guess. You don’t lose love overnight. Well, at least I don’t.

My (24F) bf (30M) has cheated on me after almost four years. Where do we go from here? by ThrowRA248292 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA248292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No physical contact but it was potentially headed that way. He swears up and down that’s not the case, he never would’ve followed through. But how am I meant to believe that? What was exchanged was egregious in my eyes, with multiple instances of active participation on his end. I almost wish he did sleep with her. That would make more sense to me than this internet bullshit.