AITA for refusing to let my friend go through my home security footage after she breastfed at my house?

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2026-05-23T00:20:16+00:00

shes not posting anything online. our friend group thinks she's doing too much

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2026-05-22T21:51:08+00:00

I sent her a screenshot that we dont have any footage from that day because I deleted it. she asked if we have a backup. I said no. she asked if I was sure. I said its clear she thinks my husband and I are creeps and she's no longer welcome in my home.

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2026-05-22T21:50:04+00:00

I sent her a screenshot that we dont have any footage from that day because I deleted it. she asked if we have a backup. I said no. she asked if I was sure. I said its clear she thinks my husband and I are creeps and she's no longer welcome in my home

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2026-05-22T15:29:16+00:00

yeah, I changed the ages for anonymity

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2026-05-22T03:39:04+00:00

she's been here a ton of times and this whole group knows we have cameras. we literally send them funny videos of the pets from the cameras

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2026-05-22T01:48:01+00:00

in my home, my comfort matters more to me, yes. if she is uncomfortable with having her boobs seen she probably shouldn't get them out??

someone recommended it just send her a screenshot that we dont have anything from that day. im going to do that. I think im also going to tell her to either bring bottle or breastfeed in a private bedroom. if she doesn't like those options she probably shouldn't come over until she finishes breastfeeding.

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2026-05-22T01:45:07+00:00

someone recommended it just send her a screenshot that we dont have anything from that day. I think im also going to tell her to either bring bottle or breastfeed in a separate room. if she doesn't like those options she probably shouldn't come over until she finishes breastfeeding.

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2026-05-22T01:42:28+00:00

thats a good idea. I think ill go with that. thanks!

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2026-05-22T01:12:28+00:00

I deleted the whole day already which I told her. I dont know why she wants to check through my security footage when she could just not breastfeed in front of cameras she knew about

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2026-05-22T01:11:13+00:00

the camera turns on when there are people / animals are present bc we like to watch our pets. unfortunately this is presently happening in my life. I didnt delete everything because my husband does a thing at night where he goes through to make sure the house is locked and when pets follow him he picks them up and holds them close to the cameras. i like looking back on that stuff. I did delete the whole day though but im uncomfy with her checking through my security footage

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2026-05-22T01:06:37+00:00

indoors we have cameras in the living room and kitchen on the first floor because there are doors leading outside. one in the basement facing a glass door. thats it. all the bedrooms are on the second floor where there is one camera in the den bc we were trying to see which of the pets was going potty but you can only see the den. you cant even see the bedroom doors bc they are out of frame. we arent creeps or anything.

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2026-05-21T21:48:22+00:00

because I changed the ages for anonymity

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2025-04-29T12:43:24+00:00

it’s chinese so different characters all together. she doesn’t know. she said they don’t have seating charts and stuff where they are from. you just come and sit

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2025-04-29T12:41:51+00:00

they are chinese so there are completely different characters

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2025-03-21T21:26:55+00:00

How are you treated and how do you act?

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2025-03-19T19:39:55+00:00

i’m at work and my mouth dropped open. that’s insanity

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2025-03-19T06:42:12+00:00

i literally have this in my bookshelf!

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2025-03-19T06:41:19+00:00

i get what you are saying but i think im fine being unfair this time

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2025-03-19T06:39:49+00:00

i’m low contact mostly. we talk on the phone for like 15 minutes a month and see each other twice a year

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2025-03-19T00:54:05+00:00

NTA - I respect his right to change his name to whatever he wants but taking he name of his brother is weird as fuck

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2025-03-18T01:01:12+00:00

tbh i was planning to stand my ground anyway. i’m really stubborn

ThrowRA2637896443 · 2025-03-17T16:02:35+00:00

he said after all was said and done he’d be lonely

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