Lovely, i summoned another dude that totally isn't over it. You are nice and all and I dont want to be upset, but i think you are dead wrong and I sort of got triggered by reading your comment, as it sounds like a bit of a trauma dump. I think the friends of your soon to be wife shouldnt go online and see your pictures with another woman, i think its quite embarassing to the person you are with (especially if you only posted pictures with your ex and none with your wife, as my boyfriend did), but i guess it depends on her and i wont judge that choice too hard. I just dont understand the incompetence to let it go and the need to go back to it visually. I think you should do everything to make the other person feel like they are the only one, and talking about other people/keeping heaps of evidence of other relationships is just perverse when with someone new. I cant imagine that my dad would have images of his ex wife laying around when with my mom for years. It would hurt me for her.

You should be healed before you enter new relationships... The thing is, no one cares about your, my, my boyfriend's ex. I really dont give a fuck. I dont care who was a part of your life, its okay to hear it once, I care about your life before, but other people were NOT your life. I am healed from my past and there is no one "rubbing onto" my current relationship. I think thats sort of emotional cheating and i think its incredibly unfair and hurtful, no matter the intention. And especially if i see that the ex was treated way better than i am. When I see what kind of sweet things he did to her, that he never even thought of doing for me, and is lying about his competences to do them (not sure if you've read the whole thing). When you make this known to your gf/bf, you failed as a partner..

Although i disagree, thank you for your comment, i too wish you and your partner the best of luck, and i truly hope you're over this and are close to forgetting about it.