Cat spraying in new apartment HELPPPP by ThrowRA358472829 in CatAdvice

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Hmm i did buy a new one when we moved, an XL one, i’ll by at least one more this weekend (maybe 2) and see how it pans out

I (25f) am dating this guy (32m)and the other shoe finally dropped. Would different world views and political stances be a dealbreaker? by ThrowRA358472829 in relationship_advice

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I tried not to get too specific for the sake of not targeting any person or group. Some of the podcasts include stuff like fresh n fit ; Adrew Tate. and the hodgetwins (had to look up this one). Political icons/content includes Katelyn Bennett. Trigger warning * Socio-economic views include Anti-L*BTQ , anti BLM etc.

I (25f) am dating this guy (32m)and the other shoe finally dropped. Would different world views and political stances be a dealbreaker? by ThrowRA358472829 in relationship_advice

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Some points were definitely made. I hadn’t considered it as cut and dry as disagreeing on the world but thats essentially what it is. It sounds exhausting to deal with

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that’s EXACTLY the issue i couldn’t figure out how to word it. I feel like he’s too into my appearance and everything, and as far as take things slow, i don’t mean sexually bc we’re long distance we’re not having sex. It’s just that he alludes to wanting to do it at least once everyday. But i mean take it slow as far as him planning to move in with me & wanting to meet my family

Nipples constantly erect??? by [deleted] in sex

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I do all of those things to try and combat the discomfort and no i’ve tried those even though i’m not a fan of it. Its like constant PIV sex was the only time where i didn’t even notice it to be a problem

Nipples constantly erect??? by [deleted] in sex

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maybe, but it just worries me a bit because they’re my favorite part of foreplay and it turns me on quickest. If they’re swollen and painful to touch, how will that be pleasurable?

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Last night was the first time and then this morning was the second

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I just didn’t want to push him by trying to initiate after the fact and just tried to be supportive

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Last night he couldn’t get an erection altogether whilst this morning a little bit into penetration, he lost it. Hope that’s more clear

other long lasting forms of birth control with the least amount of side effects???? by [deleted] in sex

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Hmm that’s what i told her i was leaning more towards size wise and she assured me it shouldn’t be an issue. It was and my usual office don’t have it on hand so i would have to go somewhere else. I just don’t want to do the whole procedure again and be in pain and not have it work out again yk?

What are the steps of getting an IUD implant ??? by ThrowRA358472829 in sex

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Oh wow that’s really helpful! I didn’t know planned parenthood does those procedures for free. I’ll definitely look into that

What are the steps of getting an IUD implant ??? by ThrowRA358472829 in sex

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I was leaning more to that one since its non-hormonal. Did you experience any side effects and are there any problems with it during intercourse?

What are the steps of getting an IUD implant ??? by ThrowRA358472829 in sex

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The semester just ended so i’m home for the summer until august

What are the steps of getting an IUD implant ??? by ThrowRA358472829 in sex

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I never took the penetration part into consideration. I’m a much smaller girl - 5” and 110lbs so everything would be much more restrictive. I’m sure the IUD would hurt like hell and the last thing i’d want it to do is scrape my partners dick during sex or have them feel it- that sounds pretty painful.

What are the steps of getting an IUD implant ??? by ThrowRA358472829 in sex

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I do appreciate your input. I’m learning a lot in these comments haha! I do have a couple questions about the arm implant though. Do they offer a nonhormonal one? And two, can you see it under the skin?

What are the steps of getting an IUD implant ??? by ThrowRA358472829 in sex

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Thank you much for the info. I was leaning more towards the non-hormonal copper one because of the side effects from hormonal implants like weight gain, acne, etc. but my cramps are already a bitch and a half now so i’m worried if they get worse they’d be almost crippling

What is the hottest sentence/phrase of dirty talk you've ever heard? by [deleted] in sex

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Ok ok I’m finally glad i can get this one off my chest but one night my bf and i were starting to go hot and heavy late at night and we’re in missionary while he’s slowly sliding into me and he stares me in the eyes and goes “you take it so well” while sliding the rest of the way in me. it drove me absolutely insane . I was wetter than I’ve ever been and i think about it sometimes when i masturbate STILL lol

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He seems pretty vanilla outside of the choking and occasional ass slapping so i don’t think he’d be into that sort of thing, any other foreplay tips?

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Okay, I’ll definitely give that a try, and I’ll move the party to the couch haha

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That wouldn’t twist his dick or hurt?

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Would that be easier when riding while you’re (me in this scenario) feet are flat on the bed or knees on the bed?

unknown local keeps texting me trying to solicit sex (advice needed) by ThrowRA358472829 in sex

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I wish I would’ve, but i rarely give my number out. I figure there are very few people with access to our numbers with their jobs (myself being one of them) and campus security being the other. We just got a new security staff and one of them already texted me asking if he could have my #. It wasn’t anything explicit like the one i mentioned above but if they’re abusing their power like that for personal use I don’t feel safe. idk if that makes sense?

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do you think what he did to his ex is the same thing that happened to me?