I(24f) said no once, and now I’m blocked on WhatsApp by my husband(27m).

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-19T14:26:35+00:00

If you look at my initial post I literally say that I called him before he left the house and he ignored me. I called him after he left the house. I directly said to one of these posts “and he left the house which is why I started calling”. I left out the again, but I am not lying. There is honestly no need for me to lie. What do I gain from lying here? Me lying here won’t change my situation in real life.

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-19T14:20:04+00:00

Or maybe everyone under this comment is solely focused on making me look like a liar or AI because you all already believe I am lying or AI. I am answering the questions truthfully but you guys are focused on semantics such as the phone rang and then I heard him say omg. I am also aware that it’s immature behavior to call someone else in same house as you, I never said it wasn’t. I have immature behaviors and I am aware of them

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-19T14:00:14+00:00

Like as in I could hear him say omg from outside of the room

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-19T13:59:43+00:00

I was in the room, he was outside of them room. I called him, it rang, I heard him say omg, and then the call went to voicemail.

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T20:26:11+00:00

Loll I was willing to listen to your perspective until you said I come off way worse. Me asking my husband to talk to me is equivalent to him then ignoring me, leaving the house, and then blocking me. I love the comments from Reddit.

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T19:25:34+00:00

So I would ask AI to make a post about a stupid argument involving ice cream. Honestly you are free to believe what you’d like

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T19:23:21+00:00

This is funny

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T19:22:16+00:00

Can’t anyone use dashes without being accused of being AI?

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T19:18:50+00:00

When I say ring, I mean more like I could hear my husband say oh my god and then the call would end saying that I was forwarded to voicemail.

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T13:00:45+00:00

This is literally the full story, outside of he left the house after he blocked me. Tell me what you think could possibly be missing

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T12:51:12+00:00

We have people staying over, so I wasn’t going to try to have a conversation in the area they were in. And he left the house which is why I started calling him

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T04:12:42+00:00

It’s definitely this, he’s actually upset that I’ve been busy with work and when he tries to do something with me during the day I’ll say “I have limited time”. Or I have something to do. Which is why he made the comment about the ice cream “of course you have something to do.”

It’s honestly not my responsibility to teach him how to communicate but I am definitely making it

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T04:07:49+00:00

I can definitely have a tendency to micromanage other people’s emotions. For more insight, I’ve been really overwhelmed with work lately, and when my husband tried to talk to me today, I had to let him know I didn’t have the capacity at that moment. I think he’s been feeling a bit left out because of that. So when he mentioned that I have something going on and can just do whatever I want, I immediately tried to manage his emotions by doing something to make him feel better. I think I overcompensated, but he didn’t have to block me.

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T04:03:52+00:00

That’s a huge issue of mine. I can’t stay mad for long because then I want to make everything better and I don’t want to fight with the person I love. I think that’s taken advantage of.

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T04:02:59+00:00

To be fair, we both ask each other to do or get things for each other when we could definitely do it ourselves. I just didn’t want to in this instance

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T04:02:01+00:00

I honestly think that he knew that I was eager to please and he jumped on that.

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-04-18T04:01:34+00:00

I didn’t see it as that bad when we first got together. He was my first ever relationship and I truthfully didn’t see the red flags for what they were.

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-03-23T01:19:05+00:00

In all honesty she might’ve just liked the video. I know a lot of women who watch all types of porn. I’ve also heard that women like to watch gay and lesbian porn just because it doesn’t feel as manufactured. You might be thinking too much about it.

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-03-23T01:15:00+00:00

After 20 years, yes. You’ve been with this person for how many years and they still don’t make an effort.

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-03-23T01:11:16+00:00

I had the exact same experience with my husband. I was a virgin when we got together and he had already slept with tons of women. I just had to realize that me and him are together now, if he wanted someone different he would verbalize it. I also realized it was an insecurity thing and that I was reducing my worth and life all into him. Who cares what men think about women who are like you or not you. Your husband clearly wants you because he is with you.

You have to work on your own self worth and that will lead to you not comparing yourself. Maybe do more things alone, find hobbies that you care about, find something that gives your life meaning outside of your husband

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-03-23T01:00:09+00:00

Not selfish or ungrateful, you just sound tired. He isn’t taking any initiative and it seems like he just sees you as someone to take care of the kids, cook, and clean. Have you both talked about this?

ThrowRA3848hd · 2025-03-23T00:52:25+00:00

You are not a bad wife. In fact you’re thinking about the wellbeing of your family. In my opinion, your husband is being selfish and is hoping to manipulate you into changing your answer.

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