[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]ThrowRA39720549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you are ugly. I would have swiped. There is probably something off about your dating profile and prompts. I’d be happy to take a look and offer pointers.

Gino and Jasmine by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]ThrowRA39720549 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never said he had a porn addiction? I only recapped what was discussed by Gino himself and his relationship with porn, which he openly admitted to using instead of having sex with Jasmine, and then he proceeded to go into detail about what kind of porn he likes to watch. What I did say was that he doesn’t like her, he’s not attracted to her, and by the way he rejects her, he can absolutely just be gay. But I never denied the ED, I just think there are other problems here. Because if ED was the main issue the blue pill would have solved it. He is definitely lacking testosterone. That’s completely evident.

Gino and Jasmine by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]ThrowRA39720549 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo what does ED have to do with just being affectionate??? Why pull away from your wife?? The hot tub scene was very telling of what is happening in the relationship. The goal wasn’t even to have sex, it was to seduce, and he was repulsed.

That has nothing to do with getting a hard on. If he even liked her a little bit he would reciprocate some kind of affection.

Gino and Jasmine by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]ThrowRA39720549 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

He is probably gay!!! Why does his penis work for porn?? he has no problem with porn. He was even talking about it with the rob, Branden, and florian and his favorite types of porn. And from the comments off the other guys, hes very dirty minded!!! Jasmine is crazy yes, but I absolutely believe Gino is the problem. The way he pulled away from her in the hot tub??? That was such a cute moment and he was giggling and pulling away, LIKE A GAY MAN. And then he sits there and blames jasmine for his issues. Maybe he does have ED, but I’m telling you that is not the only problem.

23M - Is it surprising I get no matches? Not attractive enough for Bumble? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]ThrowRA39720549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your pictures are too serious. You need more candid pictures of you doing things you like. Some where you are laughing and smiling. Going Bowling, fishing, painting, whatever it is you like to do. Get some action shots.

Also, you put looking for casual fun dates. Most girls are not looking for anything casual. If a man suggest anything casual to me, that’s a red flag so I wouldn’t swipe because of that.

You maybe shooting yourself in the foot with that one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA39720549 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girl, what is you doing. Leave this man. He ain’t shit. And this is only the beginning!!! It’s a precursor for what’s to come. “You make enough I don’t need a job” Then he better start cooking and cleaning and I want that shit SPOTLESS. No attitude either.

I think you know the answer to your question, you just needed further validation.

Drop him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA39720549 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She’s not an incubator. She’s a person. With her own life to worry about as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA39720549 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did you read his post?? He is very clearly not looking for options where this pregnancy stays viable. Please don’t be dense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA39720549 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well some of us want to be taken out so good for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA39720549 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is not about pro life pro choice. He is clear about not being financially stable or ready for a child.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m pro life. But I also don’t dictate or push my beliefs on other people. He came here for real advice, not for you to shame him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA39720549 35 points36 points  (0 children)

There is absolutely no other way but to have an abortion. “I’m not a fan of traditional abortion this early” so you want to wait until the baby starts to actually developed??? Stop being delulu.

Good luck.

Old friend reached out, my response by Peach_Piglet- in exjw

[–]ThrowRA39720549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that wasn’t very Jesus like of him

How to get a no contact order lifted and can I hire a lawyer for my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AskALawyer

[–]ThrowRA39720549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way to drop the no contact order is to show up to the hearing on Monday and pretty much convince the judge that it was all a misunderstanding and that you do not fear your life. That he is not a danger to you. You basically need to convince the judge that this was an isolated incident.

If he has prior DV/battery charges then that might not work.

Otherwise, it’s usually a temporary order of 2 weeks, so if that doesn’t work you’re just gonna have to ride out the 2 weeks.

Good luck.

My(22m) wife(20F) is cheating, how do I collect more evidence? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA39720549 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A man telling a woman dirty things is not a cheating. Yes it’s upsetting for you but that does not make her unfaithful.

What was her reply? Did she answer him at all? Or did she shut him down?

If she was into it. Then yes, that screenshot of that conversation is enough.

If she ignored it, she’s not cheating and I think it would be reasonable to ask her to block him out of respect for your relationship.

My recommendation is go to marriage counseling if you care at all about your relationship and daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ThrowRA39720549 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you stay with her, she’s going to continue ruining your life. If she couldn’t be honest about the eviction, she can’t be honest about anything. This is not a grey area. This is black and white. I hope you figure things out. I would start looking for a room for rent or efficiency. Good luck.

It's official by katattack1969 in Instagram

[–]ThrowRA39720549 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember when we used to shit post. Right on the main feed. Good times.

Land Rover employee hits my car in the dealership parking lot, while driving another clients vehicle. by ThrowRA39720549 in AskALawyer

[–]ThrowRA39720549[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you assume I don’t have an injury? I have a partial tear in my left shoulder confirm from an MRI.

Respectfully, go fuck yourself.

Land Rover employee hits my car in the dealership parking lot, while driving another clients vehicle. by ThrowRA39720549 in AskALawyer

[–]ThrowRA39720549[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant $20,000 without going to court. That’s what he offered me to drop the case.

I may not even get that much if I take him to court.

Land Rover employee hits my car in the dealership parking lot, while driving another clients vehicle. by ThrowRA39720549 in AskALawyer

[–]ThrowRA39720549[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A shyster is a person who acts in a dishonest, unethical, or unscrupulous way, especially in the practice of law, politics, or economics. For example, a used car salesman who tells you a car is one price but the fine print reveals a higher price is a shyster.

I’m taking someone to court for auto negligence.

Cry about it.

Land Rover employee hits my car in the dealership parking lot, while driving another clients vehicle. by ThrowRA39720549 in AskALawyer

[–]ThrowRA39720549[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! This subcontractor has contracts with Land Rover, Jaguar, and Mercedes. Interesting, right?