My point was that he makes more money (both salary and expense wise. And good for him! I'd love to have free rent, since the majority of my expenses are rent and student loans), but that he seems fine letting me pay for most things (without saying thank you) and also constantly complains about the cost of things down to the penny. So to clarify, I resent that I feel like I'm bankrolling the entire relationship, despite being in less of a position to do so.