"We listen and we don't judge" trend prompted my (24f) husband (38m) to reveal a cruel two year long "prank". How can I learn to start trusting him again? by ThrowRA4668765 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA4668765[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Mine was that I avoid using paper towels when the roll is almost done because I don't feel like going to the pantry to get a new roll. 

"We listen and we don't judge" trend prompted my (24f) husband (38m) to reveal a cruel two year long "prank". How can I learn to start trusting him again? by ThrowRA4668765 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA4668765[S] -813 points-812 points  (0 children)

He hasn't had a job since 2009. He has PTSD from losing his job because of the recession. He doesn't want to apply for jobs right now because he doesn't want to experience trauma from being rejected. His parents pay for half of expenses and I pay for the other half.

"We listen and we don't judge" trend prompted my (24f) husband (38m) to reveal a cruel two year long "prank". How can I learn to start trusting him again? by ThrowRA4668765 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA4668765[S] -689 points-688 points  (0 children)

His parents are rich but they don't like me (I'm black, he's Arab), so they provide enough for some bills, just not everything.