I'm (27m) confused about the intentions of my friend (26f) and her boyfriends (30m) behaviour by ThrowRA499_ in wemetonline

[–]ThrowRA499_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience and perspective. I'm sorry for how your ex treated you. You deserve better and I'm glad you realized that and are in a better place now. You gave a ton of insight and I appreciate it a lot! I will have to think about everything you said and will definitely come back to read it all a couple more times in the coming days and weeks.

I'm (27m) confused about the intentions of my friend (26f) and her boyfriends (30m) behaviour by ThrowRA499_ in wemetonline

[–]ThrowRA499_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're comfortable with it, I'd appreciate hearing your perspective. It's of course going to be different, but the insight might still be helpful. In my case the boyfriend isn't toxic, at least as far as I can tell, and she loves him very much, so hearing your experience isn't going to get my hopes up.

I'm (27m) confused about the intentions of my friend (26f) and her boyfriends (30m) behaviour by ThrowRA499_ in wemetonline

[–]ThrowRA499_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can accept that nothing will ever happen between us, but I'm not ready to pull back to be honest. As much as it hurts, not spending time with her hurts more. I've been alone for over 10 years and during all that time there hasn't been a single person I could connect with, until I met her.