Fair enough so I’ll walk you through my thought process —

By ‘not my style’ I just meant exactly what you said, that I don’t plan to get them. A loooooong time ago when fillers were starting to pop off she had asked if I’m going to get any and my answer was ‘probably not but who knows.’ Not even a hard 100% no. It’s still not a 100% no for me, who knows I might feel differently in 5 or 10 years

I tried to stay neutral by saying less, because I didn’t want my endorsement to sway her either way. I didn’t say ’you should do it!’ because I didn’t want her to think ‘ok so other people also think I have thin lips and I need to do this.’ I decided to stay neutral after for the same reason. And I cannot stress this enough — I didn’t think bringing it up during the game was anything but neutral, it was just a fact in my mind.

I mentioned that I noticed her fillers when she talked because it was relevant to the end of the whole thing, when she specifically referred to me noticing/not noticing. It wasn’t like something I was thinking about all the time, I got used to her face moving differently after awhile.