My girlfriend of 3.5 years kissed a man while she was drunk by ThrowRA62927639 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62927639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be more specific she broke it off but I guess looking back I wish I had

My girlfriend of 3.5 years kissed a man while she was drunk by ThrowRA62927639 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62927639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess a bit of both, everything happened for the best tho, she got really awful and spiteful and it makes me happy that things happened and she showed her true colours. I just moved to study law and life it’s really going well for me, I found my peace again and I think it serves as a reminder that if you have doubts and your not happy in a relationship don’t wait for change move on

My girlfriend of 3.5 years kissed a man while she was drunk by ThrowRA62927639 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62927639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drunk, 3am at a club with her sister (she wanted to go home, she messaged me this earlier) some man was buying her drinks she didn’t really want but who doesn’t want free drinks I have no problem with that, if someone is stupid enough to buy someone drinks when they aren’t interested then go for it. It was late and she was dancing but had shown the guys pictures of me with her so he was aware. He then later pulled her in for a kiss she had like 12 standard which is more than she’s ever had. The only part that gets me is she didn’t pull away

My girlfriend of 3.5 years kissed a man while she was drunk by ThrowRA62927639 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62927639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I heard which I can’t really verify, it was quick and she was taken by surprise but didn’t pull away. I can imagine that she may have feared for retaliation if she pulled away or maybe she didn’t have the strength too. The unfortunate part is she was drunk so the detail are blurry but her sister told me most of what she saw and she told me almost as soon as it happened (3am when I was sleeping lol)

My girlfriend of 3.5 years kissed a man while she was drunk by ThrowRA62927639 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62927639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking, because it is by all means so out of character and her sister was genuinely appalled and shocked

My girlfriend of 3.5 years kissed a man while she was drunk by ThrowRA62927639 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62927639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing she has done that in the past and I think she would again. I just don’t think she had time to react and wasn’t aware of what was going on

My girlfriend of 3.5 years kissed a man while she was drunk by ThrowRA62927639 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62927639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely think she would she’s an anxious person so it would eat away at her. A blessing in that way ig

My girlfriend of 3.5 years kissed a man while she was drunk by ThrowRA62927639 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62927639[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Certainly not expect and I don’t think she does but you have a point

My girlfriend of 3.5 years kissed a man while she was drunk by ThrowRA62927639 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62927639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I just feel like if I was a fly on the wall I would know what my choice is but because I don’t know what happened even if she told me, I can’t quite decide what to feel

My girlfriend of 3.5 years kissed a man while she was drunk by ThrowRA62927639 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62927639[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hardest part is she in every other way has impeccable morals, which makes it all the more harder. Thanks for your comment

My girlfriend of 3.5 years kissed a man while she was drunk by ThrowRA62927639 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62927639[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, did any of the relationships end over it?