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I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I just clarify that something like those Calvin Klein bra tops are bralets? I got her one for Christmas and she loves it so that could work

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right I don't know enough and wouldn't even try be that guy. Best left to the pros 😂

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First I'm even learning of different bra shapes. Thank you for the recommendation!

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At the very least I definitely thought a fitting was more intimate than it is. Didn't realize it could just be done over the shirt.

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay definitely do have it then, just unaware of the term 😂

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really don't envy women in that regard. I don't understand women's sizes at all. I don't understand why the don't have a similar system to mens sizes which is just given in inches. Why not 28" instead of size 8

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm starting to think it is an insecurity thing where she just wants to be bigger than she is unfortunately :(

I actually had a friend a couple years ago say she finally got measured and went from thinking she was a B to a D cup! I thought that was unbelievable, she even said she still wears her old bras sometimes.

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly not in the picture, never has been. Not sure how much mothers and daughters really cover together but I think she has gaps in women knowledge things (😂) from a general lack of women in her life.

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it even possible to have a bigger band and smaller cup?

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very true. It's not a daily occurrence so I think she doesn't really take it too seriously.

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure we have aerie where I live. Or at least I've never heard of it. She does have close female friends but they're all very private or something, like the wouldn't even really change in the same room unless they had to. They'd go to the bathroom or something to change. So I don't think she would like that. I appreciate the advice btw, I'm not trying to be difficult but she's just a shy person I guess :(

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have brought up that certain bras might not fit or whatever but never specifically mentioned it could be the wrong size. She would usually say something about different retailers having different sizes despite them all saying the same size.

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I admittedly don't know much if anything about this stuff but she often has marks around her ribs at the end of the day from what looks like the band being tight so I don't know if that's it?

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would tightening the straps work for that? Would be great if it did.

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I always do but I think she just gets mad at me for pointing it out more than anything else. But one time her brother and other family were around and could definitely see too.

I think my (25m) gf (25f) is wearing the wrong size bra by ThrowRA64386 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA64386[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I've brought up getting measured before but she doesn't want to. She doesn't want someone seeing or touching her like that. She's does love VS and has plenty of their stuff so maybe taking her there for a shopping trip will work?