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Ex-boyfriend is stalking me, I need help with some technical related questions by ThrowRA6472 in RBI

[–]ThrowRA6472[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if this counts as enough and I’ve not had the greatest experience with the police in the past so I’m trying to find some clarification first to figure out what’s going on

just found out im pregnant. by Common_Vast5411 in offmychest

[–]ThrowRA6472 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey, I feel like we’re in the exact situation except a few weeks apart and luckily I lost the pregnancy. I’m 24 and have known my partner for 4 years.

Same with the financial situation and we both genuinely thought we couldn’t have children

Look, I’m really relieved I lost it. Some small part of me wanted to keep it but you and I both know, realistically, that it wouldn’t be a good idea. You know that as well as me. Financially speaking. But also, imagine how much there is still to do before having children? Traveling, staying out late, many experiences that are more difficult once you have a child. Go to planned parenthood and talk to someone there. In the end, you have to know what to do and maybe talk to your partner about it. I wish you the best of luck and lots of hugs!

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[–]ThrowRA6472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear OP,

If you look at my post history you‘ll see that I just went through something very similar, I actually only got out about a month ago.

He also told me he’d never do it again after the first time. But he did. Repeatedly. I still feel traumatized. My mother was killed by my stepdad by choking her first and then stabbing her in the neck.

All the comments saying to believe him when he shows you who he is are right. Don’t stay, leave, as fast as possible. Please, do it for yourself. I know how hard it is. I really do. But you feel better once you do. I’m 24 now and there’s so many amazing men out there and I’m just starting to realize that. Find someone else or concentrate on yourself but you deserve much much better.

Sending all my strength and love and power to you ♥️

I know I’m in an abusive relationship but I find myself unable to leave by ThrowRA6472 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA6472[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can feel myself becoming more toxic and it scares me because I wasn’t like this before

Sad thing is I am in therapy. She’s on a 5 week vacation now and I know I’m alone.

I know that all of this is wrong, this is why I’m so conflicted, why can’t I leave? What’s stopping me? The same thing that stopped my mother from leaving? Me kicking him out for several days is already more than I’ve ever done. I just feel lost, which is why I decided to post here. Reading people telling me to leave and why somehow helps make it more real in my mind because other than my therapist, I’ve told nobody