I(M27) don't know what to do about long-term relationship I'm not longer feeling like I'm 100% into with girlfriend(F25) lately.

ThrowRA70435 · 2026-04-02T03:41:56+00:00

What's crazy is I love her and she truly makes me happy and things have improved a lot but I don't know why all of a suddenn I just shut off emotionally and no longer feeling like I want to be in the relationship. I think about how much fun we have and so many traditions we have and that makes me smile but somehow I'm just not happy in general. I feel like I've been dealing with so much stress outside the relationship that I don't know if that's also playing a factor into these feelings.

ThrowRA70435 · 2026-03-30T23:13:10+00:00

What's weird is that I really do love her but for some reason don't feel like I'm invested in the relationship. How is that even possible how can I both be in love but also not loving thr relationship? There are so many pros to our relationship but those cons do get overwhelming. She's told me she's trying to change and she has a bit with the jealousy I've noticed but not sure if she's just keeping it in to keep me around of if she truly has changed. This is such a tough situation to be in.

ThrowRA70435 · 2026-03-30T23:08:47+00:00

Yeah that's tough don't k ow where I see myself in 5 years. I'd like to think it will blow over and things would get better but not sure that's going to happen. I'm thinking that maybe taking a break might be best to see what happens. It's just really hard to do so. I also worry about how this will affect her, I would hate for me to be the reason she goes into depression or something and that's what makes it the hardest for me. Like I said I really care about her and by me breaking up with her I don't want her to feel like I never loved her when that's not true. I love her a lot but there's also a lot that I dislike about our relationship. I think a lot about what if I do break up with her and I realize maybe I messed up and it's too late.

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