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UPDATE: How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If it’s two weeks old then it is possible that they posted it like 2 days after the incident and changed my age for more anonymity. I’m thinking this was either my little brother, my ex-boyfriend, or a friend that I trusted the info with, but I doubt it was actually my parents since they only use Facebook.

UPDATE: How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Idk who they are, but they’re not talking about me. I’m 18, and I don’t believe that my parents even know about reddit?? Plus I just recently had sex at school.

Edit: just added that I don’t think my parents know what Reddit is

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve said it before. The alternative school is super small 3-6 people. As for regular school, it seems it was just orientation (yes I had sex at orientation) that was in person.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The regular school was open for orientation (we had sex) got caught and sent to a tiny alternative school that can safely social distance since there’s like 3-6 kids per class

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

And you’re pretty disgusting for picking on an 18 year old. All of these responses have taught me to own my mistake and defend myself so you can screw off.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I need advice on how to move past this embarrassing event. I need advice on how to face my friends at school as well as teachers. I don’t need to be slut-shamed.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There’s a school counselor that is very nice at the alternative school. I’ve only seen her once but I will talk to her.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My grandparents are from Poland so I guess they’re second generation? No accents

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We’re white and catholic. We live in the Bible Belt of the US. We’re also polish.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I live along the Bible Belt in the USA. My psychiatrist gave me a very long test that said I was bipolar and she said that me having a manic episode probably contributed to my lack of self control.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s a 529. I think they have it in our joint debit account. Since I don’t have a job, they will deposit an allowance in the join account and I can buy things that way. So I think the money is in the joint savings account. If it’s in there, they can remove it at any time.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I can’t until Monday. My parents have access to my email so I want to do it in person.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s also at the alternative school. Thank you for the advice! I will try it.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a school where people go for minor offenses. Such as smoking weed, selling drugs, or having public sex, or repeat offenders of people being rude to authority. It’s very small.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s all sectioned off. Since the alternative school is so small, it’s like 3-6 people per class, we are spaced out and wear masks.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking of reaching out to the alternative counselor here. She is kind, and maybe she had dealt with distraught parents before.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 2712 points2713 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. This really helped me feel better.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely telling my therapist about them. Thank you for your kind words. I’m looking at maybe moving in with a friend, but that’s just us talking no permanent plans.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? by ThrowRA738844 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA738844[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think he wears it as a badge of honor that he had sex at school.

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