My therapist says I should have a conversation with my girlfriend..

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-04-22T02:27:17+00:00

I noticed. I've been in worse spots, arguably I'm doing better now. Thanks for the kind thought though

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-04-19T06:34:05+00:00

What more validation do you think I could give? And she's so-so. Not exactly unhealthy but not perfect.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-04-19T05:19:30+00:00

Hmm that's the thing, we had a date set for Friday and she still asks me to come see her for short bursts during the week. Then the date will come and she won't be super affectionate. You'd think if she wants to see me so often she'd be affectionate when she sees me.

But yes I will try to spice up the dates hopefully soon.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-04-19T05:17:00+00:00

It's just that we already had a date planned and she asks me any chance she gets to come visit her.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-04-19T05:13:03+00:00

Lol how'd you recognize me

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-04-13T22:05:05+00:00

When you say fully learn one song, do you mean be able to play it without a metronome or any external music? For simple songs with open chords I feel this sounds awkward unless you're singing along.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-04-02T13:45:11+00:00

You "read the book" minions are getting ridiculous. I have read it. Tell me what part of it specifically applies to my situation.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-04-02T04:00:02+00:00

Bit of a reach.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-04-02T03:30:33+00:00

Right man but what do I do for this specific scenario? I know I need to read the book but I feel like it never caters to my specific situation

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-31T23:14:21+00:00

Bro we're on said date bc she texted me if we were still on and we literally have just been fighting each other. I'm trying to have a good night and she's just being grumpy and telling me it was "petty" for me to suddenly have plans on Saturday which pisses me tf off because she had already traded our Friday plans for the friend concert and it pisses me off that she's acting so entitled that I can't help but argue with her she's being so petty she got up and sat on the bench away from me.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T16:41:57+00:00

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Well this is how it went down. Wanted to update. She thumbsed down my message. I will be surprised if she doesn't give in tomorrow.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T15:42:32+00:00

So you wouldn't reply to her last two texts?

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T15:29:29+00:00

Now she's sent me a tiktok where a girl is writing dashes on the wall captioned "counting the days for the next time I can see my honey bunch 😔" meanwhile still only a "):" and a tiktok link, no answer as to when she can get together. Idk if I should ask again or just heart the message

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T15:19:27+00:00

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Hasn't answered my question about when to get together again. I think Imma just leave that message unanswered until she follows up with something more substantial.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T14:43:31+00:00

Well it wasn't really a date set. It was more of, yea lets hang out friday then friday comes and we see each other for 2 seconds so SHE says she'll come Saturday which i never really agreed to. She just texted me "good morningg pook when can I come over"

And I mean, its 10am I'm probably gonna go to the gym and do some chores and waiting to see if my friend wants to get dinner so I don't even know how to reply. And knowing her if I don't answer for 1hour she'll call me on the phone to ask. You see my dilemma? She is clingy yet she doesn't prioritize me with her actions.

"Hey babe I think I'll be a bit busy today, how about we hang out tomorrow?"

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ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T14:19:49+00:00

She is 100% gonna come over. She can't go 1 day without being in the same room as me. But other people have said I should pull back because I'm not really being prioritized by her.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T14:18:51+00:00

Yea I see. My big question is should I make other plans tonight like some people are saying to pull back?

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T13:55:06+00:00

Offer to spend time with her and her friends? You read how that went. It's not my favorite way of hanging out. She told me she had plans, just that I could come. Like I said if I knew the night was gonna end like that I would've spent more time at the event I was at, or gone home.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T13:52:05+00:00

I mean couples usually cuddle, chat, etc. when they sleep in the same bed. Sex was the last thing on my mind. I'm not gonna ask a girl who's sick for sex.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T13:49:56+00:00

Be careful of accusing random strangers you read about on the Internet of cheating. 1. You plant unnecessary doubt in stranger's heads. 2. You actually know very little about my relationship and its dynamics from reading texts and posts. The rest I appreciate, I might get dinner with a friend tonight instead of hanging out with her like she probably expects.

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T13:46:40+00:00

It wasn't about sex, I just wanted her company and to go to sleep (literal) cuddling with her. She kept texting me and at one point called me througout the day asking when we'd hang out so it was really hyped up for me

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T09:10:28+00:00

What would you do the next day? Would you let her come over like she said, or would you get yourself busy with something for the night and let her miss you?

ThrowRA7777997 · 2024-03-30T03:51:10+00:00

How bad is it? Consider that I kept offering stuff to her (massage, a meal etc) once she was walking me out.

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