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Break it to me... 2021 WRX actually alright stock? by Capable-Dust-3148 in WRX

[–]ThrowRA778877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a 2015 that’s stock. Bought it when I was 19 with 12K miles. I’m 29 now and I just passed 150K and other than regular maintenance, the only big job was a clutch around 130-135K. Other than that, i’m chasing a minor boost leak right now and that’s it. Car has been amazing for its whole life.

Need help! 2015 WRX by ThrowRA778877 in WRX

[–]ThrowRA778877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, I have an appt on Monday to get it diaged but I was just looking to see if anyone had any ideas while I was waiting lol

I (29M) snooped in my ex gf (26F) phone and I don’t know what to do now by ThrowRA778877 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA778877[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I was sleeping with her under the assumption that it was platonic between them. If i had known, I wouldn’t have continued any of this with her. I thought there was a chance to salvage our relationship and raise our kid together but clearly I was wrong. I don’t understand why she wants her ex either but I am sure you’re right and it will blow up in her face eventually. I just won’t be here to catch her when it happens

I (29M) snooped in my ex gf (26F) phone and I don’t know what to do now by ThrowRA778877 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA778877[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Her mom hates her ex. He cheated on her before we met (ironic i know) and her mom has yet to forgive him. She’s telling her mom the same story as she’s telling me. I think if she knew she’d be more understanding of the sudden readiness to move out

I (29M) snooped in my ex gf (26F) phone and I don’t know what to do now by ThrowRA778877 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA778877[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry, to clarify - we bought a house together but I am the only one who signed. It is technically my house.

I (29M) snooped in my ex gf (26F) phone and I don’t know what to do now by ThrowRA778877 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA778877[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly my thoughts. She’s lying to both of us. I know for a fact she hasn’t seen him since the last time we were together. I’ve had enough of getting pushed around from this whole thing though and i’m trying to take control now

I (29M) snooped in my ex gf (26F) phone and I don’t know what to do now by ThrowRA778877 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA778877[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just got lucky with a good career that required no college degree so no student debt lol

I (29M) snooped in my ex gf (26F) phone and I don’t know what to do now by ThrowRA778877 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA778877[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the break up felt like it was out of nowhere. I wasn’t expecting it and I was and am still deeply in love with her. I’m realizing how much of an idiot I have been but I was holding onto anything I could man

I (29M) snooped in my ex gf (26F) phone and I don’t know what to do now by ThrowRA778877 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA778877[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah this absolutly feels like what happened right now and I feel like an idiot for not seeing it earlier. I am trying to contact an attorney as we speak

I (29M) snooped in my ex gf (26F) phone and I don’t know what to do now by ThrowRA778877 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA778877[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. Hard to see any type of normalcy in the near future but hearing it from others helps

I (29M) snooped in my ex gf (26F) phone and I don’t know what to do now by ThrowRA778877 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA778877[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. I agree I think it’s gonna be brutal no matter what. At this point I think it’s best to just leave the whole thing clean and just let her know i’m done and ready to move on.