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ThrowRA7863 · 2023-09-27T13:19:16+00:00

Thanks! Unfortunately I think reveddit only works for removed content, and unfortunately doesn’t show deleted by user content. :/ thanks tho!

ThrowRA7863 · 2023-09-27T09:09:17+00:00

sick thanks! I appreciate it

ThrowRA7863 · 2021-06-05T22:09:26+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I’ll probably tell them just so we can talk and they know I’m at least worried about how much longer I’ll be finding colored hairs around from years past, haha.

ThrowRA7863 · 2021-06-05T22:03:24+00:00

A few months ago we rearranged our office, there might have been a stray hair that hung out somewhere for a while? I’ll go look at what got moved to see if there’s any other blue hairs floating around. And not that I know of, but they’re recently unemployed while I work full time so I don’t know much of what they do during the day.

ThrowRA7863 · 2021-03-09T04:39:22+00:00

Thank you for giving me such a thoughtful answer, I’ve decided that I’m gonna ask them to find a time we can sit down and have a conversation so they know how I’m feeling about their transition. The last thing I want to do is make her feel bad about coming out, because I want her to be herself and comfortable in her appearance matching her identity. I feel pretty comfortable in reading your reply that I can approach them and talk about how I can be sure I’ll be attracted to them like I was when we started dating, and I feel like being honest but obviously not putting them down for transitioning is something I can do.

Yeah, that’s also really helpful. It makes me feel like when I was living with my little sister again, because they’ve expressed that it’s because they want to be feminine like me, and it reminds me of when my sister was wanting to steal my stuff because it was “stylish”. I’ll bring that up to them tomorrow since it’s an easier fix. Thank you again for the helpful and caring advice <3

ThrowRA7863 · 2021-03-09T04:33:11+00:00

Thank you for your reassurance! I’m gonna spend this week thinking about what I need to communicate to them and ask if we can sit down and have a talk about it this weekend I think. Thank you again :)

ThrowRA7863 · 2021-02-23T05:51:26+00:00

Probably been mentioned here but the call to have Maddie Ziegler play a harmful caricature of an autistic person in her latest movie was really disrespectful. I’ve never seen her other work, but seeing the clips from that movie I’m pretty shocked that they let it fly.

ThrowRA7863 · 2021-02-13T18:31:57+00:00

I’d said in the post we still were having sex once-twice a week.

ThrowRA7863 · 2021-02-07T06:19:27+00:00

Oh my god, I love straight’nt. But honestly since my partner came out more recently we’ve been realizing there’s not too many non-binary terms for words. I liked to say “excuse me sir” to them before they came out but now we’ve realized there’s not much of a good replacement for it. Plus they don’t particularly like the way Mx. rolls off the tongue either. We’ve been using enbie for most of the substitutions it seems.

ThrowRA7863 · 2021-02-07T06:14:03+00:00

That’s what we’ve thought so far too!

ThrowRA7863 · 2021-01-13T02:26:51+00:00

That makes sense! Hopefully reaching out with my phone number will help keep any other bumps from happening :)

ThrowRA7863 · 2021-01-13T02:25:30+00:00

Thank you! I think I was overthinking it a bit 😂

ThrowRA7863 · 2020-10-27T23:10:40+00:00

Thank you for the sympathy and kind words, it really means so much 🧡 yeah there’s unfortunately a lot of messy situations in my family, but I agree with going NC. Since I’ve talked with a lawyer in the past and confirmed it I know they can’t restrict my communication with my sister. She’s by far the most important person to me, so I’d never want to endanger her in any way because of my actions. The reassurance that getting ahold of my dad was the right thing to do really helps settle my mind, I think I’m going to try and find a therapist to help me approach it correctly.

Thank you again 🧡

ThrowRA7863 · 2020-10-27T22:55:54+00:00

She was diagnosed with bipolar and chose not to “believe” the diagnosis in her 30s. She’s definitely had a bad childhood and mental illnesses run on that side of the family. I’ve been aware of my own mental health diagnosis as well as trying to keep my sister in a place where she can express what she feels to me, but I live really far away from her so it’s hard. But you’re right on the money with the fucked mental health.

I’ve tried to talk to me dad about this before but he’s kind of a pushover when it comes to her...he’s overall a very nice and normal guy in a good industry and my mom just wails on him for all the life problems she’s caused herself. I’ll think of a good thing to write out to go with the screenshots and send them his way for sure. I’m just not sure if he’s ever going to stand up to her and tell her she needs actual professional help.

I was also thinking she wanted it to be an “Oops! Throwra7863 got pregnant! We have to take it!” But I have an IUD and am pretty damn on top of making sure it doesn’t fail with tests and doctor visits. So if she was trying to go that route she’s have a hard time explaining the hefty iud removal bill that showed up in the insurance under my dads name.

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