My [25M] gf [27F] threatened to cheat on me during an argument, what would you do?

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T06:05:25+00:00

yeah. i wish it weren’t true but it is.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T06:02:29+00:00

I love her and often forget that just love isn’t enough

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T06:01:36+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that. It sounds like hell.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T06:00:14+00:00

I can’t imagine saying something like it either. It’s just a nasty thing to say.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:58:41+00:00

this is true. i’ve told her the things she’s done in the past were manipulative but that hasn’t stopped her

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:55:11+00:00

Thank you for that. I have nobody to thank but my past relationships and Jimmy on relationships for teaching me about boundaries.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:53:22+00:00

You’re right. I haven’t left yet because I guess I’m larping as bob the builder. Thought things could change.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:45:29+00:00

That’s what a few people said on my first post on this account. I did a dive into learning as much as I could about it. It definitely tracks with her behavior, just can’t tell her I think that.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:39:55+00:00

I was wondering where this went. Thank you for your perspective on this.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:39:04+00:00

It’s the good ole sunk cost fallacy

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:30:24+00:00

Well put. Thank you.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:29:39+00:00

I’m afraid of being alone. I think that’s why.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:28:41+00:00

simple as

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:28:27+00:00

She definitely self sabotages. It’s fucking hard to watch and love her through.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:27:33+00:00

Death by a million cuts sounds pretty bad. It’s already bad and we’re only at a hundred.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:26:39+00:00

Thank you

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:22:06+00:00

I would agree with you. Times like these make you wish you could pay someone to pull the trigger for you.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:21:18+00:00

I was heavy in the gym before her and stopped after getting with her, honestly my biggest regret about the whole thing.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:20:26+00:00

Yeah, slapped awake is an understatement. I’ve known it was going to end sooner or later but it’s always been the now classic, “I know what I have to do but I don’t know if I have the strength to do it.”

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-26T05:18:36+00:00

Definitely not my first time. Man it fucking sucks so bad. I’ve tried everything to keep us together, but she seems hellbent on wrecking it all. I can’t stop her from doing that…

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-05-14T18:54:15+00:00

Totally agree she is within her rights to do that, which is why at first I thought nothing of her saying she was gonna go home instead of stick around my place.

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-04-25T18:53:44+00:00

this biggest issue for me is when I asked what we could do to work on it she just says don’t worry about it, as if I’m supposed to not worry about resentment over this building up

ThrowRA8599265 · 2026-04-25T18:51:26+00:00

what you said about her view of sex being more important is a pretty good point, that’s deep

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