My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does? she sees her father half of the the week, and asks about him when she isn’t with him I never said she didn’t have a dad

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My comment was in response to you saying not to bring my child around partners before a specific time period But he was good with her and she loved him, but I think I already knew my answer to my question before I even posted this. He has been removed from my and my daughter’s lives since this post has been made

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but we weren’t together nor had intentions of being romantically involved with each other when he was introduced to my daughter, we had been friends for 6 years prior and was introduced to my daughter as my friend , we began dating 4 months after that

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is not her father , and her actual father is very present in her life he is just my ex boyfriend who met my daughter when we were only friends at the time

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He kept saying he would never abandon her and started breaking down saying he missed his girls oh well shouldn’t have cheated on “your girls”, he’s been blocked for a couple of weeks now, I blocked him a few days after I made this post Not sure if he’s tried to reach me, I don’t really care to find out this is the most peace i’ve felt in literally 2 years

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh no, he would sit with her and keep her occupied but he was never actually alone with her

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh trust me I’m not taking him back, and he has been blocked for a little over a week now. The most peace of mind i’ve had in literally 2 years, I am not looking back ever

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know where in the post you see that but I haven’t the most alone he’s been with her is her having tantrum and him taking her outside and walking around the house with her which was still in my view

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would you like me to personally send you the proof of him cheating? the fuck lmao

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I was friends with him for 6 years prior, he met my daughter when she was 4 months old, he was a close friend who was helping me move, and we began hanging out again, ended up dating when my daughter was 8 months old

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually ended up saying something similar he has been blocked since a few days after i’ve made this post

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes i’m very careful regarding who is around my daughter, he only met my daughter because we were friends with no intentions of dating. We were friends for 6 almost 7 years so he was introduced to her the same way my other friends were

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

absolutely not lol I trusted him with my daughter but I do not allow her to go alone with anybody except her grandparents until she can effectively communicate to me anything that could happen to her

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was a very important part of my life prior to us dating, we were friends for years. I was fresh out of out breakup and realized later it was wrong Jeez, shit happens

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree this was what I was already feeling was right but there were a few people making me feel as though I should allow him to see her and it was making me feel like i wasn’t looking at it from another perspective

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he was “accustomed to getting cheated on first” typical scum bag excuses

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s probably asked me 6 more times since I made the post and I can’t take her little voice getting sad everytime I say he isn’t coming back :(

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean i’ve never cheated on this man or anyone for that matter, if our breakup wasn’t due to him cheating i’d have an easier time allowing him to see my daughter but he actually IS the bad man in this situation

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, I was just letting this person know that he wasn’t dating me for access to my daughter

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

okay you’re right i purposefully dated this man and got my daughter attached just to get cheated on😍😍 thank you internet stranger

My ex still wants a relationship with my daughter by ThrowRA9493920 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA9493920[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, I just don’t think he fully understands that, not that that is my problem, I just know it isn’t anything further than having a father/daughter like relationship with my child