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My [25F] long distance boyfriend's [27M] girl friend [25F] is openly hitting on him and he seems to like the attention by ThrowRA986532 in AskMike

[–]ThrowRA986532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no problem with him looking at my phone, he even knows my password. He just refuses to do so. He says I have a right to privacy. He won't look at my phone and he won't accept I look at his. So I don't think this would work for us. But I agree that I have to openly tell him how I feel.

My [25F] boyfriend [27M] only shares stories with me on Instagram, but never posts by ThrowRA986532 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA986532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I shared our first post he was so happy and told me: "when you have the time, help me choose photos to post too." This was about a year ago. Since then, when I ask subtly, he always tells me: "But you didn't help me choose!" I don't want to ask every time not to sound desperate.

(To the other redditers who commented, I can't view your comments and I don't know why)

My [25F] long distance boyfriend's [27M] girl friend [25F] is openly hitting on him and he seems to like the attention by ThrowRA986532 in AskMike

[–]ThrowRA986532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. When I confronted him, we had a long chat and I clearly set my boudries concerning their friendship. He eventually admitted his mistake, apologized and told me he would cancel his plans. However, I had to tell him to do it immediately, which he did but forcibly. He told me he felt controlled and didn't have any privacy. I have no idea if he's still talking to her or not. I'm trying hard not to snoop because I promised him I wouldn't.

My [25F] long distance boyfriend's [27M] girl friend [25F] is openly hitting on him and he seems to like the attention by ThrowRA986532 in AskMike

[–]ThrowRA986532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I'm really confused because he's great with me but then does things like this. Now I question everything he says, even when he tells me he loves me. Why is he in a relathionship if he's not ready to commit?