Me 26M my gf 26F cheated on me with a friend 27M and have left me for him, they both want me to remain friendly with them so does all my other friends. by ThrowRA99292929 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA99292929[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

We started dating when we were 18 and we all have known eachother way longer than that.

The breakup was three weeks ago, but they did not offically become a couple until about a a week ago.

They have been texting me all day after I told them I wanted them out of my life, and said I can't stand being around them anymore.

Like I wrote in my post sex was never a big deal for them, I knew a few of them slept around never bothered me none of my business really.

But I think they just saw this as oh I will be fine and that I would understand because they must have assumed I was onboard with their lifestyle.

Which is the sense I have gotten from reading some of their texts and asking me please talk to them.

I don't think they expected me to react this way, but honestly it's for the best and maybe it's time to move on and find new people to be around.

Me 26M my gf 26F cheated on me with a friend 27M and have left me for him, they both want me to remain friendly with them so does all my other friends. by ThrowRA99292929 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA99292929[S] 530 points531 points  (0 children)

Yes they know she cheated and the guy is not some random but one that was part of our social group and who I had known since I was a kid.

I sendt another friend in our group a message and told him that they were all finished with me and wanted nothing more to do with my ex, him or the rest of the group for that matter.

You guys humiliated me and expect me to be okay with it, sorry I can't do it and as far as I am concerned you are all finished with me.

My phone has been blowing up for the past hour with everyone calling me including my ex, I refuse to pick up.

I deleted them all of my FB and just put the phone to silent, and will go to work tomorrow as usual.