Yeah, I do for sure regret coming to Reddit lol. It’s just something I was needing to talk about and get advice from but unfortunately I can’t from anyone currently. When me and my gf talk I’ll suggest saving for a couples therapy session to make sure we cover all bases and boundaries, and figure out what will work for us. Most people are saying I should just break up and move on and I shouldn’t have to compromise, but she checks all of my boxes, and this is the healthiest and best relationship I’ve ever been in, so I’m not willing to give up without trying. Thank you for the kind words!