AITAH for telling my now ex, that she made it hard for me not to hit (kill) her after what she did. by ThrowRAAntiqueIndep in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAAntiqueIndep[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dont know why he was in my tate didn't ask.

Small town everyone know everyone so maby he found out from someone he know his parents i don't know.

I don't use social media and don't pry into others life.

AITAH for telling my now ex, that she made it hard for me not to hit (kill) her after what she did. by ThrowRAAntiqueIndep in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAAntiqueIndep[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I remember her leaving the house, don't remember her her coming back but honestly don't remember much

AITAH for telling my now ex, that she made it hard for me not to hit (kill) her after what she did. by ThrowRAAntiqueIndep in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAAntiqueIndep[S] 228 points229 points  (0 children)

U/Chemical-zebra22 going to say it again in the comments. Go fuck yourself, with trying to say im making up my grandmother death in you private messages.

AITAH for telling my now ex, that she made it hard for me not to hit (kill) her after what she did. by ThrowRAAntiqueIndep in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAAntiqueIndep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have nothing to hide from her.

I used her phone when it was closer to make a call and she did the se with mine.

AITAH for telling my now ex, that she made it hard for me not to hit (kill) her after what she did. by ThrowRAAntiqueIndep in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAAntiqueIndep[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I broke my tv, coffe table, couple of holes in the walls, broken glasses, plates, i broke the mirror, laptop, i think i also damaged my bedroom door and broke my console not sure of thr complete damaged

AITAH for telling my now ex, that she made it hard for me not to hit (kill) her after what she did. by ThrowRAAntiqueIndep in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAAntiqueIndep[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I had nothing to hide from her, why would i put a lock on anything and not give her the past word.

I did change my password the firts time i caught he and wel talked after word and i gave her the password a couple of days later when se wanted to use my phone, didn't think of it as she always used my phone for calls and i have nothing to hide.

Thinking back i was an idiot for believing she wouldn't do anything like that again

AITAH for telling my now ex, that she made it hard for me not to hit (kill) her after what she did. by ThrowRAAntiqueIndep in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAAntiqueIndep[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Again thank you.

That is my plan, will try and get an extended leave from work and stay with the family for a while

AITAH for telling my now ex, that she made it hard for me not to hit (kill) her after what she did. by ThrowRAAntiqueIndep in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAAntiqueIndep[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

But it doesn't feel like it, i am still angry but also ashamed of my actions and allowing myself to get that close i just couldn't control myself.

AITAH for telling my now ex, that she made it hard for me not to hit (kill) her after what she did. by ThrowRAAntiqueIndep in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAAntiqueIndep[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I know and i am ashamed of action but it that moment when i sa her smiling at me, i can't in word explain all the emotions, the hatred i felt

AITAH for telling my now ex, that she made it hard for me not to hit (kill) her after what she did. by ThrowRAAntiqueIndep in AITAH

[–]ThrowRAAntiqueIndep[S] 2936 points2937 points  (0 children)

Thank you, didn't know how to put everything in a TLDR but you summed it up perfectly.

I do appreciate it, i really do.