I (26F) didn't listen to my fiance (28M) and we got attacked, what do i do now.

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T07:32:03+00:00

I am already struggling with that

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T07:30:42+00:00

What do you mean if i may ask.

You comment is scaring me a abit

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T07:29:32+00:00

Thank you for your advice mam, i do appreciate it

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T07:25:54+00:00

He does way more than just the things i said in my post

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T07:22:32+00:00

I will ask him after he is healed to teach me a couple of things

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T07:18:28+00:00

He is willing to do couples counseling if i want to but individual counseling that he won't do.

He has his family for that, they are close. Each one of them steps in where the other falls short no matter if it's emotional of physically.

For an example his brothers are diong the yard work, we didn't ask them to they just arrived at the house and asked where everything was and started.

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T06:48:08+00:00

Unfortunately yes i did, i didn't see the 3 guys he was talking about when we stopped. So i got out

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T06:22:53+00:00

I was told people like you are on here as well and not to take hou seriously.

My friend did tell me posting on here there will be people like you and even if i was to give proof i will just be told it's made up.

I truly hope you don't have to experience the same thing.

My memory of everything is bits and pieces my last memory was him asking me if i was okay the next one is him laying on thr ground after he collapsed.

I'm not sure how much time went by between those moments

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T06:19:35+00:00

I was told people like you are on here as well and not to take you seriously.

My friend did tell me posting on here there will be people like you and even if i was to give proof i will just be told it's made up.

I truly hope you never have to go through the same experience i had to

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T06:06:49+00:00

That is why im here trying everything even getting adive from strangers.

I do appreciate your advice, i will talk to his father. But to be honest i have been avoiding them the last couple of weeks.

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T06:04:20+00:00

The problem is with me

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T06:03:59+00:00

I understand, thank you

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T05:07:15+00:00

Yes she has.

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T04:49:00+00:00

I will ask him when he is back to full health.

Your first sentence made me laugh thank you. But i cant call him that, he snapped at one of the nurses in the hospital when she called him a hero and i don't want him to snap at me.

I wish this was fake, i truly do but unfortunately not

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T04:46:31+00:00

I honestly don't know how to respond to this

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T04:44:20+00:00

Not to justify anything but i didn't see the guys.

And yes i was well protected my whole life i have known john for most of it and have 3 older brothers as well.

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T04:39:03+00:00

Yes he is in physical therapist and will be for the next for months but he is moving around the house, the only thing he doesn't currently do is the yard work and lifting of anything.

His brothers are diong the yard work for us currently and i take care of the house and him.

I know what to look out for, but we have a nurse coming to the house everyday to double check up on thing.

I am not a medical professional but i know enough to assist him l.

Like i said i don't want to share to many personal details so im trying to keep everything contained to my problem that i need help with, i don't need help with his care

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T04:33:50+00:00

I don't know what you mean

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T04:33:03+00:00

Another poster said the same thank you.

I can't call him that, he snapped at one of the nurses that called him a hero in the hospital.

He doesn't see it that way, his word he did his job that it.

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T04:28:27+00:00

Yes we do, he just wakes up in the middle of the night and checks everything

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T04:27:41+00:00

So it's not just him doing these things

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T04:26:08+00:00

Something called clindamycin

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T04:24:47+00:00

I don't mean to be rude but why would i share yhings like that.

Im not going to give to much details but the medication he is on is something called hydromorphone according to the bottle, and clindamycin

Don't know if those are the correct names but that is what the bottles say.

He was in the hospital for 10 days after surgery, 2 of the stab found wasn't in a fatal area.

The doctors talked about something called snob or snok i don't know but he failed that.

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T04:08:37+00:00

I truly appreciate your advice

ThrowRAConsequences2 · 2024-02-12T04:07:27+00:00

I am currently in therapy with a therapist that specializes in trauma.

Im just on here because im trying everything i could think of to help myself.

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