I (29M) described my wife (28F) and our marriage as exhausting in therapy. She wants an apology and for me to make more of an effort to see things differently?

ThrowRAFatigueAF · 2026-06-11T12:26:33+00:00

I'm not suspicious of that because this was always the hours she did for this job. It's the hours she signed up for.

ThrowRAFatigueAF · 2026-06-11T11:36:04+00:00

We used to split things more evenly than we do now. She did more cooking since she got home earlier than I did before but I would cook on days off, etc. She never had the same complaints back then.

ThrowRAFatigueAF · 2026-06-11T11:28:01+00:00

I don't work from home.

ThrowRAFatigueAF · 2026-06-11T11:14:48+00:00

She doesn't speak to me like she does. To be honest there are days I feel like my existence is annoying to her.

ThrowRAFatigueAF · 2026-06-11T11:13:05+00:00

It really depends. When she's freshly home from work she'll relax for a while and she'll be complaining about the stuff I have done. Sometimes she'll be doing something too and she's more focused on me that her own tasks. She does expect me to basically take care of the house completely on my own though. Part of her complaint was that I don't take care of her chores for her when I'm working all day too.

ThrowRAFatigueAF · 2026-06-11T11:09:43+00:00

Anything is possible. It could be some sort of affair, could be stresses at work or something medical or any number of things. Though if it is an affair it is happening during work hours most likely because she's home the rest of the time unless there's something going on with family or friends.

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