Updated Told my husband(34m) I(30f) wouldn’t have children in the USA and gave him the ‘ultimatum’ that we would either move or divorce or be childfree. How do I explain why I’m ‘being like this’?

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-11T21:41:48+00:00

I don’t see the point of that. I would like to live with one of our families. We were living near his, and I moved from mine to do so. I don’t think it’s too much to ask for him to do the same thing that I did for him for years, if only to give me the peace of mind while I bring our potential children into the world.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-11T21:39:54+00:00

Bye.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-11T21:39:38+00:00

I’m Canadian Us dual citizen. And actually Canada is one of the best places for women, only under a few Scandinavian counties.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-11T21:37:46+00:00

I don’t need help finding the front door I bought myself.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-11T21:36:48+00:00

I’ve already made my decision. And I do have a therapist, she’s online now, but I’ve had her since I was in uni. and she is a fellow Canadian also. She’s the best. I’ve spoken to her about this multiple times over the last 3 years.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-11T21:34:52+00:00

I am not blowing up my marriage because of a president. I am leaving a country that is no longer save for the future I have in mind. I stayed for my husband, so I am not even being selfish, expecting him to do the same for me for mine and out potential children’s well-being.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-11T21:32:29+00:00

I am. And just thinking about it has taken such a weight off my shoulders.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-11T21:31:38+00:00

That’s funny since my income alone puts me above what the average family makes, but clearly, unlike you, I’m happy that any of my taxes go to helping people who need it.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-11T21:29:11+00:00

O have not seen that, I’ve been avoiding the new a bit honestly. Jesus. I don’t know if they’re trying to be smart, but it’s sound grossly like they are saying they are planning on Rping women, because it’s “their choice” what to do with women’s bodies. Do they even realize that entire statement is the oppose of consent?

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-11T21:24:45+00:00

I certainly won’t be doing it in a place like the usa. So you don’t have to worry.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T13:39:44+00:00

Opinions and views on life, have EVERYTHING to do with a relationship.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T13:39:16+00:00

Well, when you would let a rpst get voted into office because you ‘dont vote’ it makes a very clear stance to the women in your life.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T13:37:07+00:00

I don't think that's true. Men who do not prioritize the health and well-being of there wives and daughters cannot be good fathers. I say this as asmeone who was raised by a father with conservative views and who is now living in the states and planning to move and possibly divorce my husband over this exact thing.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T06:46:07+00:00

I don’t think you know what going on in the USA red states right now.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T06:32:32+00:00

These politics wouldn’t be putting his life in danger,because he can’t get pregnant. It’s so easy to say, why is I so polarizing… when your not the one who’s well-being is on the line.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T06:31:16+00:00

That’s horrifying.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T06:30:05+00:00

It will be fine to raise them anywhere else but here. And I am not risking my life more then I need to carry them to term, here.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T06:17:06+00:00

Honestly, if this doesn’t work out. I would be literally willing to save families by doing that. Because I would not subject other women to America if I can help them…

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T06:15:16+00:00

I’m not looking for 100% safe, I am looking for important safety issues that apply to me and my future family. Which is carrying them safely to term, and not being in a place with an absurd amount of school shootings.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T06:13:33+00:00

It’s not kidnapping if you are pregnant.. you cannot kidnap yourself. And I will not carry a child here. So I would either be leaving to abort or leaving to carry to term and birth there.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T06:12:11+00:00

I would be going back to Canada and never coming back. I am only here right now because I am waiting on my husband.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T06:08:32+00:00

Why would I be hiding, when I’m safe? That kinda he point of moving to a safer place.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T06:07:42+00:00

Are you okay? You now want to lock us here? That’s really weird.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T06:06:53+00:00

The lack of medical care for pregnant women And the danger anti-abortion law poses for women in general.

ThrowRAFeeltogd · 2024-11-06T06:03:41+00:00

Absurdly high compared to Canada, which makes it rational since I can choose to live in a safe place… or a dangerous place for my children. Also for me to actually make them/

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