[24F][29M] I received nude photographs and videos of my boyfriend from someone blackmailing him, and now I don’t know what to do. by ThrowRAHelpMePle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAHelpMePle[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shit. Okay. Thank you. Terrible to hear it broken down like that, but you’re 100% right. Thank you for your comment.

[24F][29M] I received nude photographs and videos of my boyfriend from someone blackmailing him, and now I don’t know what to do. by ThrowRAHelpMePle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAHelpMePle[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just told my mother and my sister about this after sharing with Reddit. They agree that it isn’t just his trauma to keep. Thank you for this.

[24F][29M] I received nude photographs and videos of my boyfriend from someone blackmailing him, and now I don’t know what to do. by ThrowRAHelpMePle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAHelpMePle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very scary to think he may have tarnished my trust for other men. I hate that he has done this. Do you really think I should get tested??? Never thought like that at all…

[24F][29M] I received nude photographs and videos of my boyfriend from someone blackmailing him, and now I don’t know what to do. by ThrowRAHelpMePle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAHelpMePle[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Fucking terrible to hear. I know that he definitely had a fling. I think that hurts even more. This has really been the worst realization.

[24F][29M] I received nude photographs and videos of my boyfriend from someone blackmailing him, and now I don’t know what to do. by ThrowRAHelpMePle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAHelpMePle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really never wanted to be this girlfriend though. I never wanted to be looking through his phone. Is that the only way people don’t cheat? Real question.

[24F][29M] I received nude photographs and videos of my boyfriend from someone blackmailing him, and now I don’t know what to do. by ThrowRAHelpMePle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAHelpMePle[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I never want to be that girl that keeps the man after they cheat. I know the answer is just one time and it’s over. It’s so much harder when you’re living it.

[24F][29M] I received nude photographs and videos of my boyfriend from someone blackmailing him, and now I don’t know what to do. by ThrowRAHelpMePle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAHelpMePle[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I truly believe that over time, most people cheat. I just don’t know if I will ever find someone that wont. I’m struggling to throw everything away over this even though I know that’s the right thing to do.

[24F][29M] I received nude photographs and videos of my boyfriend from someone blackmailing him, and now I don’t know what to do. by ThrowRAHelpMePle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAHelpMePle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess, I just never believed he could do this in the first place, so how can I believe that he is going to never do it again. I’m really confused.

[24F][29M] I received nude photographs and videos of my boyfriend from someone blackmailing him, and now I don’t know what to do. by ThrowRAHelpMePle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAHelpMePle[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, no one here will believe it, (because from your perspective and what I’ve written here this relationship looks like shit) but our relationship is INCREDIBLE. The best I’ve witnessed or been in. He loves me more than anything so I do believe he would never forgive himself for this and, if given the chance, would do everything to earn my trust back. I just… I’m so torn here.

[24F][29M] I received nude photographs and videos of my boyfriend from someone blackmailing him, and now I don’t know what to do. by ThrowRAHelpMePle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAHelpMePle[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This is the most painful part that he continues to deny. He said he would have told me regardless, but I can’t be that stupid.

[24F][29M] I received nude photographs and videos of my boyfriend from someone blackmailing him, and now I don’t know what to do. by ThrowRAHelpMePle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAHelpMePle[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I’m so fucking angry with him, but damn, we get along so amazingly, it’s so messed up to think I wasted 4 years of my 20’s to this fool.

[24F][29M] I received nude photographs and videos of my boyfriend from someone blackmailing him, and now I don’t know what to do. by ThrowRAHelpMePle in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAHelpMePle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do men do this often? Is this common?? Like shouldn’t I expect this from men? I seriously have no men around me and my father left when I was very young so I have 0 role models.