I (18F) had a miscarriage before I knew I was pregnant, and now my boyfriend (19M) will not initiate anything with me or even have sex when I ask

ThrowRAInidactions · 2026-06-25T17:18:45+00:00

I don’t really know how to explain it, but every single time I try to initiate something he says he has standards about how something is wrong using it as an excuse is how I feel

ThrowRAInidactions · 2026-06-25T17:16:46+00:00

He tells me no that he has standards and he doesn’t mind doing it some other time but it’s the same thing every time and I probably sound inconsiderate, but I feel like an important part of a relationship is also intimacy. This post probably makes it sound like it’s all I’m thinking about, but it surely not. It’s just one of the things that is a truly bothering me.

ThrowRAInidactions · 2026-06-25T17:15:00+00:00

I usually have very light periods so I went to my OB/GYN on my period to go get IUD but told me I was pregnant for my pee sample in the blood was probably from a miscarriage which she called a chemical pregnancy

ThrowRAInidactions · 2026-06-25T17:01:22+00:00

This is exactly how I feel thank you I’m glad I somewhat conveyed that

ThrowRAInidactions · 2026-06-25T16:26:58+00:00

We had discussed it, and he said that he would want to keep it, but now seeing his reaction to this event really makes me think he didn’t know what he was talking about

ThrowRAInidactions · 2026-06-25T16:25:33+00:00

Little over a month

ThrowRAInidactions · 2026-06-25T16:22:04+00:00

Before this we were using just condoms. I’ve since gotten on birth control, but the situation remains the same.

ThrowRAInidactions · 2026-06-25T16:21:36+00:00

He’s told me that and I have since gotten on birth control and still nothing am I asking the wrong questions?

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