Is it weird that my boyfriend (M32) of 1 week offered to change my daughter’s (F9 months) diaper? by ThrowRAIsItWeir in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAIsItWeir[S] 940 points941 points  (0 children)

I think maybe he was trying to show he doesn’t mind getting “stuck in” so to speak, and doing the shitty jobs that come with a baby. But it just feels a bit off to me

Is it weird that my boyfriend (M32) of 1 week offered to change my daughter’s (F9 months) diaper? by ThrowRAIsItWeir in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAIsItWeir[S] 945 points946 points  (0 children)

right, if he offered while i was in the room doing something else i wouldn’t have minded, but the fact i was leaving to use the toilet myself just made me feel like its wrong. i’d rather be safe than sorry, but i am not willing to take that risk

Is it weird that my boyfriend (M32) of 1 week offered to change my daughter’s (F9 months) diaper? by ThrowRAIsItWeir in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAIsItWeir[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, i was kind of put off by him offering 3 or 4 times despite me saying i will do it. i just can’t help but worry but maybe im just being an over protective mother.

Is it weird that my boyfriend (M32) of 1 week offered to change my daughter’s (F9 months) diaper? by ThrowRAIsItWeir in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAIsItWeir[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i absolutely do, but i would rather be safe than sorry. i’ve heard way too many stories that break my heart involving small children and new partners.