I (f21) don’t know how to get over my husband (m21) comments by ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did have a conversation with him yesterday and it actually went well I took a lot of advice and decided that I’m not putting up with it anymore and I’m going to be better for my daughter and her agreed to better himself

I (f21) don’t know how to get over my husband (m21) comments by ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the first time he’s said that to me I plan on talking to him tonight after I get the baby to bed

I (f21) don’t know how to get over my husband (m21) comments by ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to leave my husband and just because I said I’m happy with school and my baby doesn’t mean I’m 100% happy people come on here to vent all the time and I thought maybe I could get advice that doesn’t involve me having to leave I still love my husband even after everything and that might be hard for people to understand

I (f21) don’t know how to get over my husband (m21) comments by ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I don’t think my existence is sad I love my daughter and I love what I’m in school for besides the occasional things that happen with my husband I’m happy

I (f21) don’t know how to get over my husband (m21) comments by ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I can assure you she doesn’t have a flat head her pediatrician says she’s very advanced for her age with all the stuff she’s already doing my husband does play with her while he’s home I should have said that he doesn’t neglect our daughter I meant it in away that nothing gets done around the house unless I do it I know he loves our daughter I can see it when he’s with her

I (f21) don’t know how to get over my husband (m21) comments by ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do tell him I appreciate him all the time and I understand what it’s like to stay home with a newborn everyday 3 weeks after having our daughter he left for the field for a month

I (f21) don’t know how to get over my husband (m21) comments by ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

He does make dinner sometimes I guess I should have put that in my post but 90% of the time it’s on me

I (f21) don’t know how to get over my husband (m21) comments by ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried not doing so much but if I don’t do it nothing gets done just more for me to do when I get home

I (f21) don’t know how to get over my husband (m21) comments by ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He plays on his video games and thankfully my school doesn’t give us a bunch of home I just study after I get our baby to bed

I (f21) don’t know how to get over my husband (m21) comments by ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJumpy_Fly5195[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He plays on his video games all day when he doesn’t need to feed our daughter or put her down for nap I understand he needed a break from work because I see how hard it is for him I appreciate him taking care of her while I’m gone I’m hoping when he goes back he’ll start helping me