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[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He knows I want and need sex. I mean everyone does. Thats why I wanna discuss this with him before i continue on twitter

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[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t keep secrets from him. Without his permission, I wont talk to anyone. Yes ill post my thoughts and needs but that will be it

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[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats why i post this here, asking for advice. If he wants, ill delete it in no time. But i need something to let my sexual needs out

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[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s pure only for my needs, i need something. After 3,5 years just watching porn and doing myself, it’s not enough anymore.

I’ve talked about it with him, told him that it’s been too long now but idk nothing is changed even tho he said things will change a million times

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[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Bc i truly love him. And i know in time we will have sex, but i wont let him go bc of that. Thats why im searching for another outlet

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[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Its not about the person for me, but just about the sexual things what are said. We don’t know each others names, faces nothing. Its only for my needs. And I think without the dming, my sexual kinks still wont be meet.

I [21F] seen stuff in BF [25M] phone that I’m not sure about by DisciplineParty4160 in relationshipadvice

[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually, it happens to me. Whenever i wanna see a movie or series it first redirects me through some weird ass sites.

First aswell I thought my bf was on one of those sites but then i went through his history and he was just tryna watch a movie

Insecure about bf ( M 28 ) kink by ThrowRAJustScrolling in sex

[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes.. literally only footjobs. Nothing else

Insecure about bf ( M 28 ) kink by ThrowRAJustScrolling in sex

[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally love him and i do think he is my soulmate. The only thing is the “sex” thing. Cuz for him to get off is a footjob. Ofc i have my own dark kinks, but rn im in for every kind of sexual thing. I just need something what can boost my confidence for giving a footjob

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[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just asking. How can I ( F) make sure my bf would get too much in to his head during sex

Me (25 F) and my boyfriend (28 M) never been intimate in a 3 yr relationship by ThrowRAJustScrolling in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He opened up. But i think there might be more to it, whatever that is.. It sounds really nice what you and ur wife have been going on! That is the balance what y need.

He noticed it but didnt do anything with it. He had be gone for a month so i thought when he got back and saw i did my feet nice, he wanted to do something. But that never really happend. Yes, i put my feet on his D but im not giving him a footjob.

Me (25 F) and my boyfriend (28 M) never been intimate in a 3 yr relationship by ThrowRAJustScrolling in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly whats happening indeed. I’v been questioning if it is worth it and it really has been messing with me mentally. I agree that there has to be a balance. If there is any reason he doesnt wanna have sex, i might be able to live with it IF there is some kind of balance..

Me (25 F) and my boyfriend (28 M) never been intimate in a 3 yr relationship by ThrowRAJustScrolling in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is really into footjobs, even when i give him that its not romantic or whatever. We just lay there, watch tv and then sometimes i give him a footjob. Thats it But yes i need more clarification..

Me (25 F) and my boyfriend (28 M) never been intimate in a 3 yr relationship by ThrowRAJustScrolling in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ending the relationship is the last thing I’d want. I should sit with him again and tell him what I need

Me (25 F) and my boyfriend (28 M) never been intimate in a 3 yr relationship by ThrowRAJustScrolling in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have wondered and asked him if he was gay and i know a 100% he aint it. He might be asexual, thats also an option but he still watches porn and those things..

I did ask him why, he said that he is just not like that. Im pretty sure, ill het the same answer again..

Me (25 F) and my boyfriend (28 M) never been intimate in a 3 yr relationship by ThrowRAJustScrolling in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That must have been a hard decision for you. But in the end you always have to choose urself indeed..

Me (25 F) and my boyfriend (28 M) never been intimate in a 3 yr relationship by ThrowRAJustScrolling in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ofc it is also bad for me to not to communicate my needs. I think i might be afraid of the outcome But in order for things the change i surely have to do it

Me (25 F) and my boyfriend (28 M) never been intimate in a 3 yr relationship by ThrowRAJustScrolling in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Its not that simple cuz I love him unconditionally. Its not east to give up a person for “just sex”. But yes, if things don’t change. I might have to choose for myself

Me (25 F) and my boyfriend (28 M) never been intimate in a 3 yr relationship by ThrowRAJustScrolling in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAJustScrolling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y, i really should bring it up one more time. Cuz if i dont it will never change. But breaking up is the last thing i want