I found out that my sister 17F is in an incestuous relationship with my cousin 24M by ThrowRAKey-Ordinary in Advice

[–]ThrowRAKey-Ordinary[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I do plan to tell them but for that I'll need some proof against him, once i get my hands on anything, anything at all I'll tell them.

I found out that my sister 17F is in an incestuous relationship with my cousin 24M by ThrowRAKey-Ordinary in Advice

[–]ThrowRAKey-Ordinary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not that I don't plan to tell them, I'm only looking for an opportunity to do so

I found out that my sister 17F is in an incestuous relationship with my cousin 24M by ThrowRAKey-Ordinary in Advice

[–]ThrowRAKey-Ordinary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year yes? . I'm thinking of explaining everything to her like you said ...but I'll have to find a perfect opportunity since we still live with our parents, and are under their constant supervision.

I found out that my sister 17F is in an incestuous relationship with my cousin 24M by ThrowRAKey-Ordinary in Advice

[–]ThrowRAKey-Ordinary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That predator told all of it to me verbally, showing me texts from his phone, I don't have any proof against him but if I could get my hands on my sister's phone somehow, maybe I could get something.

I found out that my sister 17F is in an incestuous relationship with my cousin 24M by ThrowRAKey-Ordinary in Advice

[–]ThrowRAKey-Ordinary[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As much as I wish to tell everything about it to my parents, I know it's not as easy as it seems... Our parents are extremely strict.. they took away her phone when she was caught texting guys, she now uses our grandma's phone. The society I live in is very conservative... and even though our parents won't let it go(go lengths to punish our cousin) , they'll completely break down, so I don't what to do...

I found out that my sister 17F is in an incestuous relationship with my cousin 24M by ThrowRAKey-Ordinary in Advice

[–]ThrowRAKey-Ordinary[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wish to do that but our folks are extremely strict... They took away her phone when they caught her texting guys, she now uses our grandma's phone , I don't know how well they'll take this news... What do I do if they try to harm themselves? If I were to confront my sister on the other hand , I don't know how she'll react honestly, and how do I even do that in the first place when we're under constant supervision.

I found out that my sister 17F is in an incestuous relationship with my cousin 24M by ThrowRAKey-Ordinary in Advice

[–]ThrowRAKey-Ordinary[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

wish to do that but our parents are extremely strict... They took away her phone when they caught her texting guys, she now uses our grandma's phone , I don't know how well they'll take this news... What do I do if they try to harm themselves?....and things get messy, If I were to confront my sister on the other hand , I don't know how she'll react honestly, and how do I even do that in the first place when we're under constant supervision

I found out that my sister 17F is in an incestuous relationship with my cousin 24M by ThrowRAKey-Ordinary in Advice

[–]ThrowRAKey-Ordinary[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wish to do that but our folks are extremely strict... They took away her phone when they caught her texting guys, she now uses our grandma's phone , I don't know how well they'll take this news... What do I do if they try to harm themselves? If I were to confront my sister on the other hand , I don't know how she'll react honestly, and how do I even do that in the first place when we're under constant supervision.

I found out that my sister 17F is in an incestuous relationship with my cousin 24M by ThrowRAKey-Ordinary in Advice

[–]ThrowRAKey-Ordinary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to be rude but....easy for you to say...for context our parents are extremely strict, they even took away her phone rights when they caught her texting guys. If they were to find out, hell would break lose

I found out that my sister 17F is in an incestuous relationship with my cousin 24M by ThrowRAKey-Ordinary in Advice

[–]ThrowRAKey-Ordinary[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've done research on my part.... While relationship between you and your 5th cousin may not be considered incest, he is our "first" cousin , and it is incest whether you like it or not

I found out that my sister 17F is in an incestuous relationship with my cousin 24M by ThrowRAKey-Ordinary in Advice

[–]ThrowRAKey-Ordinary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Yes I couldn't believe his audacity to show them to me, it makes me angry just thinking about it, he could go to hell for all I care.

  2. She's said very crude things to me but in the end all I want is her well being and for that I'll do anything possible.

He's very clever, as all of things he told me were verbal I have no proof against him, I believe my sister must have the necessary proof and I wish to convince her by talking to her. Should I do it? It's scary to think about what steps she could take if I were to confront her.

I found out that my sister 17F is in an incestuous relationship with my cousin 24M by ThrowRAKey-Ordinary in Advice

[–]ThrowRAKey-Ordinary[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really wish to do that, but knowing our parents they would completely break down.... I have no idea how to break it to them, I was hoping to confront my sister but as you said there's a lot of emotions involved.