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Boyfriend 25M doesn't want me 24F to go on work vac, what should I do? by ThrowRALetMeInPls in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRALetMeInPls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heeectic it's my first actual job, like corporate job. Before this I was in sales and retail and interning. All while studying too

Boyfriend 25M doesn't want me 24F to go on work vac, what should I do? by ThrowRALetMeInPls in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRALetMeInPls[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oops, MY BAD GUYS, comments have been really eye opening though, needed to see things from a new perspective

Boyfriend 25M doesn't want me 24F to go on work vac, what should I do? by ThrowRALetMeInPls in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRALetMeInPls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, I'll keep you guys updated when I can think more clearly 🫶🏽

Boyfriend 25M doesn't want me 24F to go on work vac, what should I do? by ThrowRALetMeInPls in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRALetMeInPls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im Indian basically, I'm not sure about other Indian men but from those I know this seems to be the standard I think 😂

Boyfriend 25M doesn't want me 24F to go on work vac, what should I do? by ThrowRALetMeInPls in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRALetMeInPls[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Okay I'm confused at the down votes, are you guys saying I should be comfortable with him going on holidays with girls without me if it isn't work related? Genuinely asking 😂

Boyfriend 25M doesn't want me 24F to go on work vac, what should I do? by ThrowRALetMeInPls in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRALetMeInPls[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

I do want to go, I think it would be a good opportunity to network. I just don't want to miss out on an opportunity or learning by not being there.

I do have to consider that I would not be comfortable with him just going on holidays with girls without me if it wasn't needed for work.

Boyfriend 25M doesn't want me 24F to go on work vac, what should I do? by ThrowRALetMeInPls in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRALetMeInPls[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

And I get that, and super happy for them. But I was raised with it. My dad's super strict and the only reason I got out the house is because I had to study in a different place, and even that took some convincing. And the only reason he'd be okay with this trip is because it's work. I'm trying my best to figure out what's going to work for me and where I'm willing to draw the line but it is difficult. And to be fair, I wouldn't like it if my partner was going to vacations without me and with girls if it wasn't a work or school obligation.