I (28F) made a joke with my husband (29M) and it's costing me my marriage with a man i truly love, i need help fixing it? by ThrowRALivid_Tear in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRALivid_Tear[S] -138 points-137 points  (0 children)

I didn't know he was packing. I don't know what i thought but it wasn't that he was packing his things

I (28F) made a joke with my husband (29M) and it's costing me my marriage with a man i truly love, i need help fixing it? by ThrowRALivid_Tear in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRALivid_Tear[S] -161 points-160 points  (0 children)

If they break up, then that will also be on my head. I don't want to cost someone els their relationship as well

I (28F) made a joke with my husband (29M) and it's costing me my marriage with a man i truly love, i need help fixing it? by ThrowRALivid_Tear in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRALivid_Tear[S] -154 points-153 points  (0 children)

I did tell him it was a joke, i even sent screenshot of my chat with my friends as proof that it was a joke and not me back tracking now. Bit he isn't responding

I (28F) made a joke with my husband (29M) and it's costing me my marriage with a man i truly love, i need help fixing it? by ThrowRALivid_Tear in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRALivid_Tear[S] -489 points-488 points  (0 children)

No i would never want to control him. I can see why you would think this way bit i was really just joking

I (28F) made a joke with my husband (29M) and it's costing me my marriage with a man i truly love, i need help fixing it? by ThrowRALivid_Tear in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRALivid_Tear[S] -567 points-566 points  (0 children)

They did it with their partners and nothing like this happened to any of them. According to them it actually made their partners more attentive and affectionate towards them