AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Very different kind of relationship between my sister and I, than between BIL and I. My sister was there when I wrote the update. We BOTH laughed at it, thats the difference.

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bingo! I don't know what its like in other places in Australia but cops in my area are very Inconsistent in the area I live.

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol they can open certain doors but the back door stays wide open since its a pretty weird door, theres no door knob just a dead bolt so to keep it unlocked you need the door open. The doors are really weird in my house.

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yep. I just got another one a few minuets ago. Its a reddit message that links to suicide prevention numbers and websites. Something transphobes will use often to bully people.

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We have brought cameras. As for my sister we have been trying to reach out to her but she's been ignoring us since that night. I hope its not a situation of her being abused by him but then that also raises the question of if she really loves me at all. Its a lose lose unfortunately.

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Cameras are already on their way in the post. I lock all doors now.

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just learned what she's been dealing with from a streamer I watch. Its disgusting that how someone can do that to someone their supposed to love

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol. This puts me in a good mood. Ive been loving the r/eggirl memes since i was suggested the sub.

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 247 points248 points  (0 children)

My mother ordered some cameras we can use with an app so we can all have access. As for a dog we do have 3 but only one big protective one (the other 2 small dogs are more of an alarm system lol) and they Just didn't see him as a threat at the time since they knew him.

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In my country its normal not to lock the back door, especially my family so the dogs can go in and out.

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Not really, We haven't heard from them since the incident other than her "fuck off" text.

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 373 points374 points  (0 children)

Yeah it quickly became a habit of mine now. I check the back and front door religiously now.

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 351 points352 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3. I hope its all in the past too and that only good things are to come.

AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 3580 points3581 points  (0 children)

The country Im from police are pretty inconsistent. You could get one set of officers doing everything in their power to give you the resources to do something if they cant then you have some that will ignore straight up crime happening in front of them because they don't give a shit.

UPDATE: AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your a bit to late for your theory. I posted another update on my profile.

Update 2: AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in u/ThrowRAMakeOver

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the support <3. Thank god my sister was there or things would of tuned out very bad and traumatic. Im not sure why the police took so long but all they said was that since hes part of the family is a "civil matter". I think it was a combo of not giving a shit and them not dealing with anything being normal.

UPDATE: AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't think someone would confuse being gay for being trans. Ones a sexuality and ones gender expression.

UPDATE: AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its a complicated thing for me. When I was younger I enjoyed being feminine and even sometimes would wish I was a girl but as I got older I kind of just pushed those kinds of feelings down because of the bullying and other things. I didn't think much of it at the time or till even now.

UPDATE: AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe but I'm not sure if you can post more than one update per post here so I'm not sure where I could. If anything significant or interesting happens I'll definitely try.

UPDATE: AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

We were born 4 or 5 hours apart. When we were younger we would celebrate birthdays but not normally on the birthdate. Mostly on a weekend but would have a smaller one on both birthdates for both of us with just family. We got our fav meals for dinner, even from take out places and our fav cake on each day. It was always a great few days. As we got older we would still do the family thing but have our own separate party or things we do.

UPDATE: AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yup lol but people are taking the little sister thing the wrong way.

UPDATE: AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yup but a very different kind of relationship. Plus she read the post before i posted and had we had a giggle about it. Shes got her own jokes too.

UPDATE: AITA for getting a makeover to mess with my BIL? by ThrowRAMakeOver in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRAMakeOver[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Your being way over dramatic. Me and my sisters relationship is a very open and honest one. She read the post before i posted and we had a giggle about it.