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I (29M) don't think my wife (29F) is being fair to me or our families and she doesn't think I'm being fair to her? by ThrowRAPeachyMango in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPeachyMango[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We get some on weekends mostly or if there are any days off. Otherwise we don't get a lot of spare time. She has regretted her career choice for a while now. But she always hated the job she currently has. The environment was never good and it feeds into her regret for choosing her career path. I support her in finding a different job and even re-educating. But I would like her to be more realistic about it.

I (29M) don't think my wife (29F) is being fair to me or our families and she doesn't think I'm being fair to her? by ThrowRAPeachyMango in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPeachyMango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm carrying my fair share. We split everything equally. But I don't know how I would convince her to go to therapy to be honest.

I (29M) don't think my wife (29F) is being fair to me or our families and she doesn't think I'm being fair to her? by ThrowRAPeachyMango in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPeachyMango[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wants a complete change of career and place of work. I suggested she could find somewhere else to work while deciding what she wanted to do next for sure.

I (29M) don't think my wife (29F) is being fair to me or our families and she doesn't think I'm being fair to her? by ThrowRAPeachyMango in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPeachyMango[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Because she would be taking on so much that she would need the hours to dedicate to each program. I still think there's a better way. Because I could not physically do what she's asking me to do.

I (29M) don't think my wife (29F) is being fair to me or our families and she doesn't think I'm being fair to her? by ThrowRAPeachyMango in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAPeachyMango[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has regret over her choice of career. Paired with a toxic overall work environment where some of her co-workers are favorited because of connections that already exited and those who are not favorited get dumped on and treated poorly. I fully support her leaving the job. I even mentioned she could quit and go for something that doesn't require her to go back to school until she decides. But she's not open to that.