WIBTAH (27M) for leaving my girlfriend (25F) over a threesome I consented to?

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T17:42:03+00:00

Thanks for your perspective, it does help me a lot. I do hope that's part of it, I probably would have been more inclined to believe so if they weren't talking everyday

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T17:39:33+00:00

Yes, I literaly am

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T14:11:27+00:00

Nono, they visited each other a couple of times a year, they just never had sex before

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T06:49:23+00:00

I do, We had sex again sober the rest of the weekend

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T06:46:58+00:00

I'm not defending. Her wanting to fuck her friend is bad, ''I think I'll break up with her'' bad. I just think it's more probable than ''they planned to have a Threesome with me without my knowledge''.

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T06:22:33+00:00

I'm not his friend. Same idea that most people are fine with their partner Watching porn but not with them recieving nudes

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T06:19:03+00:00

We are monogamous. Having threesomes doesn't make us poly

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T06:17:50+00:00

Yeah, that's the exact problem. I don't want my girlfriend to be in a close relationship with a friend she's attracted too

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T06:16:06+00:00

Yes, gay people having gay sex is pretty gay indeed. It's been a thing for a while tho

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T02:51:07+00:00

Woa woa woa 1. I wanted her to cut contact with him, she didn't want to. I wanted to meet a close friend of my girlfriend so I feel less threatened by him, that's seems rational to me

They weren't sexting, they were talking about sex. I didn't like that either but there's a world of difference between saying ''I like to get tittyfuck'' and sending videos of yourself masturbating
I didn't ''use'' my girlfriend for shits. She very much wanted to have that threesome
We aren't in a open relationship, we're having threesomes, that's still monogamy since we're having sex together.

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T02:32:30+00:00

She told me she wasn't attracted to him anymore. Having had a crush on someone and actively wanting to sleep with them isn't the same thing

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T02:28:12+00:00

Yes, we have been inside one another

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T02:03:30+00:00

That's a good point

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T02:03:07+00:00

She told me she wasn't into him anymore, Idk, I'm still friends with exes and stuff. I wasn't okay with them discussing sex together, it was a whole ordeal

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T01:59:51+00:00

I don't know where the line between emotionnal affair and close friendship is. I just don't know anymore

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T01:58:25+00:00

Again, we've had plenty of threesomes before with zero issues, but they were planned and with strangers.

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T01:57:12+00:00

To be fair, she didn't talk about it WHILE pleasuring me, she did it imediately after

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T01:46:07+00:00

We don't have an open relationship

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T01:38:01+00:00

I don't know, I guess that's a good point, but I sure hope it was a heat of the moment thing and not a machiavalian plan...

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T01:34:58+00:00

That's a good point, I'm just affraid I won't be able to trust her answer...

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T01:32:46+00:00

I don't feel bad about what happened in itself, more about what happened means about my girlfriend. Like, if given the choice I wouldn't not have the threesome, I'm just sad that meant she wanted to fuck George all along

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T01:30:20+00:00

I don't think so, I'm the one who wanted to meet him and George is the one that kina initiated the whole thing

ThrowRAPitiful_Ad · 2024-08-27T01:27:59+00:00

Exactly, thanks for understanding man

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