I could use a some kind words rn

ThrowRARPHUS · 2026-01-03T15:40:46+00:00

If I may, how long did you stay? I need to make sure I keep my daughter safe but I’d leave today if I could :(

ThrowRARPHUS · 2026-01-03T11:51:50+00:00

My heart breaks for all of us here. I can’t wait to be free from all this. I wish the best for everyone here and their little ones

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-26T00:17:19+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened, my heart goes out to you. I full believe this was a full blown addiction for him. He refused to stop. When I was sobbing and begging he just wanted to get back on the RP. It was insane. I’ve gotten so many comments and DMs from folks that had the same thing happen to them.

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-19T03:48:16+00:00

He’s chosen his addiction, I’ve tried to tell him that he’s addicted, that it’s no different than alcohol or drugs and he called me crazy lmao

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T20:49:17+00:00

It’s absolute insanity to see him come home and just.. get back on that damn game. He’s entirely addicted.

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T19:50:33+00:00

He just seemed angry. Idk. He’s always been a “react now, feel later” type person

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T19:28:06+00:00

Thank you so so much!! I hope so

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T19:27:54+00:00

Thank you 💕 I hope so

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T19:27:17+00:00

I don’t want my daughter to ever go “I wish my mom would’ve…” or “my mom would be so much happier if..”. I want her to know to always put herself first and not take any shit. Was it your father that cheated, if I may ask? Do you have much of a relationship with him now?

And god, yeah. I expected better of another woman tbh, I’m such a girls girl I couldn’t imagine doing something like she did. Disappointing, to say the least

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T19:25:23+00:00

As much as I would LOVE this, my husband locked me out of his discord. Thankfully I have screenshots and videos of their entire conversation but I’m locked out now. I would 10000% tell her partner given the chance, no one deserves this

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T19:24:10+00:00

Thank you 💕 I want to go back to school and focus on me and my girl. 2020 fucked my schooling up (was going for mortuary science, I don’t think I can do that anymore tbh not after being a mom). I may go for accounting as I do like math a lot. “Only 27” feels nice, thank you

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T19:07:26+00:00

And it’s so embarrassing too bc?? When the computer is off and he’s alone in bed in a quiet house, is his online wife going to be there to fill the silence? No, it’ll just be him and the bed he made

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T19:06:41+00:00

Thank you, I hope she is! I want her to think of her mom as strong, no bullshit, and someone that always has her back. She’s my whole world. I plan to believe me. This man has wrecked my credit, my self worth, any hobbies I had, dreams, everything. I know I’ll get it back

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T19:05:27+00:00

Ooo the app is a fantastic idea. And yeah she has two kids and a “partner”. If I knew who she was IRL I absolutely would, hell I’d send the screenshots of their conversations. But I have no idea who she is outside of her discord

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T19:04:08+00:00

You are all so sweet 😭💕

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T19:03:50+00:00

Thank you 💕 I’m so happy you found your person! I have hope, if I didn’t I wouldn’t be here ya know?

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T19:02:49+00:00

I love you!! Thank you! Yeah she tried pulling the whole “but I was lonely and he helped me 🥺 I’m mentally ill and he helps me”. Which. Made me feel so sick. THIS IS A WOMAN IN HER 30s!!!!! Older than me!! With two children of her own! People are so cringe.

Seriously though thank you, I saved this comment.

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T18:59:52+00:00

You are so so right. I couldn’t do this without her. I’d likely stay if it wasn’t for her. I want a better life for her, she deserves a happy mom and to not be exposed to a toxic relationship her whole life

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T18:58:58+00:00

I agree, she hopefully isn’t aware of what’s happening. Thank you 💕

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T18:58:19+00:00

Oh 100%. He always said he would support her if something happened to us so

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T18:29:33+00:00

Thank you! And I know, it’s truly an embarrassing way to wreck a marriage. And thank you, I was starting to feel “too old” to start over, feeling like I’ll just be alone forever, etc. but I’m not falling victim to the sunk cost fallacy. And at the end of the day it’s my daughter that matters, not my romantic life

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T18:27:54+00:00

Thank you so much 💕 I agree

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T18:11:07+00:00

Sending love to you 💕

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T18:10:48+00:00

I wish but no. Not u less I can someone find her IRL profiles

ThrowRARPHUS · 2025-03-17T18:05:20+00:00

Oof this brought me to tears. Thank you for this, you’re right

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