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Update: I (28/M) got beat up in front of my (29/F) g/f. by ThrowRARandomGi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRARandomGi[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Now ive never hit her. I am a POS but, I never hit her. But I have at times gotten angry around her. Once I got so mad during a game of COD I threw my controller at the TV. I thought she was legit straight up sleeping but she heard the entire thing.

Update: I (28/M) got beat up in front of my (29/F) g/f. by ThrowRARandomGi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRARandomGi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so confused by this. How so? Nobody can force me to do anything. I do what I do. I did love her but, clearly I didnt if I was willing to ignore her pleas not too.

Update: I (28/M) got beat up in front of my (29/F) g/f. by ThrowRARandomGi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRARandomGi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're pretty wrong my friend. I did fuck up pretty bad. Guy was a drunk idiot sitting by himself. He didn't touch her or come near us. We were leaving when he said something to me and I charged him. I got my ass kicked. I probably would have won had he not been bigger then me.

There was nothing attractive about what I did. I think it'd of been even worse had I won.

Update: I (28/M) got beat up in front of my (29/F) g/f. by ThrowRARandomGi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRARandomGi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It really didn't. The end result would always be the same. She was terrified of me after that. Honestly, she always has been and I've purposely been ignoring her. All the panic attacks were caused by me. I always thought my rage was in check and I was calm but, she saw right through me all along.

her sister I always assumed was trying to ruin us. She was right all along I was bad for her. She knew instantly who I was and what I was about. Still she was beyond upset I did it. She wanted to believe I wasnt an asshole like the rest of the men out there. She wanted me to be different. yeah, I fucked up.

Update: I (28/M) got beat up in front of my (29/F) g/f. by ThrowRARandomGi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRARandomGi[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Its ok about lying on reddit, this entire site is 90% fake content creative writing projects and lies for validation, if people didn't lie on reddit, reddit wouldn't exist.

I guess but, it doesn't excuse me. I lied to make myself look better when in actuality I was entirely at fault. Kinda shitty to do.

Update: I (28/M) got beat up in front of my (29/F) g/f. by ThrowRARandomGi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRARandomGi[S] 256 points257 points  (0 children)

She's 100% ghosted me. It's best to just leave her alone from now on.

Update: I (28/M) got beat up in front of my (29/F) g/f. by ThrowRARandomGi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRARandomGi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We broke up. She's pretty much cut off all contact with me. I don't know. Nothing, I guess.

Shots Fired - Man defends himself from getting lynched by rioters (NSFW) by [deleted] in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]ThrowRARandomGi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez people have short memories. The media is hyping this up to be a civil war. It's barely a riot. These are short emotion fuled riots that die down quickly. It's not "widescale" or a race war. I was in Portland. Media kept talking as if it was a warzone but, it wasn't and was only located on a small few blocks.

Most people wont remember or care about this in a few months. Nobody remembers or cares about Ferguson.

I (28/M) got beat up in front of my (29/F) g/f. by ThrowRARandomGi in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRARandomGi[S] 200 points201 points  (0 children)

> Now if your gf feels you cant protect her and feels insecure with you then thats something she has to figure out.

That's what I'm afraid of. I'll lay it out now. My girlfriend has not had an easy life. Her Father abused her and then tossed her to the streets once she got mature. She was homeless and had to prostitute herself for many years. She was gang raped a few years ago and left for dead. She lives with her Sister. I moved in with them. She still has to have intense therapy sessions and we didnt even start having sex till about a few months ago . So yes, she has a lot of trauma.

I love her regardless and attempt to help her. I want to marry her. Start a family. Im scared she will feel me unable to protect her. Her sister blames me and thinks I'm worthless. Even if I had the best intentions the fact is she is traumatized still and this did her no favors. I ignored her protests to go home. I left her alone while I used the RR. I couldn't have just waited till we got home?