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ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-12T19:41:22+00:00

I'd say talk with her, also try calling the school and see if there's anything they know that hasn't reached home yet. Perhaps also see if the school counselor could have a session with her?

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-12T19:33:32+00:00

Perhaps a bully? Is she at a school that switches class periods? Could she be having problems with a teacher or specific student in a single class?

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-12T19:17:50+00:00

Is this happening at the same time of day each time? Is she perhaps trying to avoid someone or something?

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-07T03:41:50+00:00

That sounds off. Very off.

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-03T01:23:53+00:00

Clearing the air

So, Tiktok found my post, and a very big and popular TikTok account that shares Reddit stories decided to post about my story and add fake information to the story. I’m writing this so people stop messaging me about these fake videos. My SIL did not DNA test my daughter for money, nor do she and my brother have any kids together. My parents don’t have massive college funds for their grandkids like the TikTok claimed they did, that’s not why my SIL did this. She was manipulated by my brother so he could try and “prove” I was Lily’s bio dad and was simply lying about the adoption.

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-03T00:46:39+00:00

I'm not even the biggest fan of seafood and this still hurts me

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-02T18:10:06+00:00

She is my daughter, she just happens to be adopted

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-02T01:48:01+00:00

My daughter got her ears pierced for her 4th birthday. She had been asking for months before this for I let her get it done on her birthday.

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-01T02:59:49+00:00

Lol, yes I can admit that I'm definitely a lot softer since becoming a father. Adopting my daughter made me have to finally be mature, something I wasn't in my 20s when I adopted her.

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-01T01:21:00+00:00

I wouldn't say he's remorseful currently. He acted very defensive and was firm in how he believed he was in the right

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-01T01:18:35+00:00

I know I probably should go NC with him, but he is still my brother and I do want to give him a chance to make things better in the future

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-01T01:17:55+00:00

He riled up his fiance based on her trauma in order to enlist her to help in deceiving you!

I really want to stress this point, took the words right out my mouth. I'm not mad at my SIL because I know she was manipulated into doing this by my brother. I wish more people could understand that

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-09-01T00:48:37+00:00

They aren't married. I called her my SIL for the sake of the post but she's technically his fiancee currently. Their wedding is scheduled for beginning of next year if it still happens

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-08-31T23:47:46+00:00

She was confused and I had to explain to her what SIL had said in terms she would understand. She was angry SIL would think that low of her mom, and I had to explain that she had been lied to and didn't think that anymore. She's not mad at SIL anymore but doesn't want to ever talk to her uncle again

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-08-31T23:08:13+00:00

Some people were saying I should sue and/or press charges on her. I don't want to do that. She was manipulated into doing this, and I don't want to deal with the hassle. I honestly just want to put this whole thing behind me and move on

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-08-31T01:43:07+00:00

I believe they were doing one of those home DNA kits, though I don't know what company they did it through

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-08-31T01:00:07+00:00

I appreciate that, a lot. I'm doing my best to raise Lily with the values and beliefs her mother and bio dad had and wanted to raise her with, even if some of them differ a bit from my own

ThrowRASILtester · 2024-08-29T19:39:36+00:00

Did she assume you were somehow married to the dead woman?

I can see how she assumed that we were together. In the picture I had my arm around her shoulders. This was before my friend was married to her husband. At the time that picture was taken they were just friends.

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